Oceana1969 51 / F
"Let's Have Dinner and discover."
Portland, Maine, United States
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Oceana1969 51/F
Portland, Maine
Finally some new pictures!!!

March 9, 2017

I am kinky and have a profile on Fetlife. I enjoy the B&D but not the S&M. I'm a submissive/bottom and will not Top/Domme.

I am looking for a relationship based of genuine affection and respect that includes erotica and sensual pleasure. I am searching for a man to spend quality time in and out of the bedroom, great intimacy (not just screwing), a common ground and yes age. Sexual and life experiences are both common ground and important to me. I am looking for one male. The right man for me may be you? Are you out there???

I am looking for a man around the southern Maine area or within a 50 mile radius. Please, if you would like an answer from me, then please read my entire profile and use respect when responding. I require being treated like a Lady In the Streets always. I seek a compassionate, funny, kind, sexy, and a total gentleman who adores a woman with her attire off AND on!!

This Lady O can turn into a Tigress with the right moves. When I receive, I give completely.

If treated like a place to park your cock....the answer is no...find another parking space, move on, and don't reply!! Your male endowment does not matter to me nor define you. It is what is in your heart that does. You need to be an entire gentleman and not one that identifies himself through his anatomy.

I will meet you in a public setting whether it be coffee, drinks, lunch, dinner, etc. Then we go our separate ways and decide whether there was a connection and if we want to further it into some hot kinky, sensual trysts. Trust me, I will let you know. I will give you an answer of yes or no followed up by more erotic behavior

We are both adults. Relationships that we want to explore further on this site pertain to two people...Not just one. There is give and take on both sides to make it work. Please make sure you give as much as you expect someone else to give to make it work. If you are too busy, then explain up front what it is you really desire. We all have busy lives and we need to make time for the things that bring us joy...and if you are on a sex site, I'm assuming sex brings you joy. We all have hobbies and children and work and family and the list goes on.

There is no reason to stand someone up. IF you change your mind and decide you really don't want to meet, let the other person know. After all, it is a sign of respect. Not contacting someone to tell them you will be late, cancelling, etc., is unacceptable and shows character, lack of.

My Ideal Person Hmmm. Ideal person. HONEST, Kind. HONEST, Sensual. HONEST, Erotic. HONEST, Sexy. HONEST, Funny. HONEST, Warm. HONEST, Respectful. Kissing is the upper persuasion for the lower invasion....

Well really my Ideal man may be you?? Attractive, affectionate, polite in public, and passionate in private...With that said I am looking for a guy that has a little Dom in him but doesn't need to control in other fashions. My ideal man will be close to my age and is aware that fine dining is not McDonald's.

Light my fire!!

Would the married and attached men please take a step back and give room to the single men who want single women. Married and attached men should be looking for the same....attached women that are playing. I do not want someone attached to another woman and has to sneak around. Thank you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Someone who can match my passion, love, and appetite. <br><br>
A man that will worship my ass. Place me on my stomach on the
bed, come up behind me with soft sensual kisses all over
my ass. Massaging and rubbing my bottom getting it totally
hot and wet. More kisses. More kises, Licks....you fill
in the rest. <br><br>
.Erotica is so important. Sensuality is important. Anyone
can fuck. How many can make love to a woman's (or man's)
body and soul. <br><br> Definitely interested
in being with a sensual black male species that can make
me purr very loudly. Any takers?? <br><br>

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Hmmm....Some secrets are better kept secret and discussed
in a fun fashion.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 51 / female
  • Portland, Maine, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: March 23, 1966
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 40 / 90 DD (E, if no DD)
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Either
My Trophy Case: