A FEW UPDATES IN HERE (esp. in "What I'm looking for".) Professional and fit, educated and sociable, I don't stand still for very long. My busy lifestyle has created some challenges to meeting someone. I moved to Okinawa in January of '07, which has been the central challenge with anyone interested in me. I don't use people and make my best attempt at an honest approach to every situation I deal with. I have short reddish-blonde hair and hazel eyes with what could be described as a "swimmer's build". Live music (especially) and most physical activities appeal to me but I am not a sports nut. Although I had a desk job, I can fix most anything around the house and enjoy working with my hands. There is not much that intimidates me but I will admit to being a bit sheltered in the kinkier side of things. That is subject to interpretation if you review other parts of my profile. I've not been with multiple partners at the same time - could be fun or really awful, who know?

My Ideal Person Okay, I've been on this site for awhile now and it is safe to assume that EVERY GUY ON THIS SITE is happy to accomodate the opportunity for sex. That's probably true for most every guy in the world. For me, I prefer a woman with some charm who is interesting and can carry on a conversation. I'd prefer to actually connect with someone over settling for a quick lay. I'd consider something exclusive but relationships take on many forms. Would be fine with a friendship with or without benefits. I'm not opposed to a one-time experience but haven't had one yet that was much to write home about (wait, I wouldn't write home about something like that anyway). In short not all good things are meant to be permanent, and I think way too many people are out there putting pressure on themselves to get married, or laid, or both. Contact with quality people who enjoy being around me is all I ask.

Do I have a type? No I don't think so; I do prefer woman with some edge to them but don't need someone with tats and piercings to be satisfied, just one who can keep up with me (I have no tats or piercings). I do like women who are fiercly independent though. I prefer a woman who compliments me and who I can compliment as well, rather than someone who tries to live vicariously through the relationship and fill up both of our time with it. "You complete me" is probably one of the most self-serving lines I think I have ever heard in a movie and I curse the day it crossed my ears; how weak. On the intimacy side, what makes incredible sex so spicy is usually the connection - keep that in mind. BDSM is in as long as I'm the Dom, but it is not my central focus. I will admit to a wicked side, just not always.

Cheers.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jeff Buckley, NIN, the Pixies, Coldplay, PJ Harvey, the Vines, Skinny Puppy, At the Drive In, etc.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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