The site charges to update status...not a single male..we are a married couple, early 40s/late 30s....in a time of life where we want to spice up the sex life again...So since we are all adults its not a terrible thing to have a playdate!! We are hoping to find more fun people to play with. Mainly interested in 45+ couples, single m/f and TS/CD. Very open minded and have played in the scene previously, been on the site approx 15yrs off/on. Hoping to find likeminded singles or couples for random flings or an ongoing occasional situation. Couples dont be shy, very respectful of boundaries and have no expectations should we choose to meet, full swap, 3some, 4some all very fun and the focus will always be on the woman,both bi friendly. Single men this is not a cuck situation although I have no problem sitting back and watching her get pleased, multiple men is for her pleasure and our focus will always teezddz on kick discrete f be on that....although we can all play together. That being said, she can play solo but respect is a must. Bulls, her comfort level is priority. Single ladies, he does not have to play with us...however his tongue is amazing and deserves awards!! And his cock can definitely last. Watching and being watched is also exciting, so you voyeurs and exhibitionists we are definitely for you!! Commonly travel to Sacramento, Tahoe, Reno, the Bay area, Santa Cruz area....who knows, maybe we'll take a vacation to where you're at so say hello!