Portland-born passionate romantic Chef looking for a Friend(s) that want to share and enjoy Life. I'm very open-minded and forward-thinking for the most part but I am quite Old-School when it comes to being a True Gentleman... polite, considerate, honest-to-a-fault, opens doors, holds chairs... Chivalry is definitely not Dead with Me! AND of course, being a Real True Gentleman includes going that Extra Mile to PLEASE whether that means simple things, sophistication, or something dark and kinky (within a few limits). In the past 3 years I have had my life changed by a very Dear Friend and Lover who opened my Eyes to the world of Paleo/Primal Eating. This has resulted in losing over 60 pounds and 10" around my waist while actually gaining muscle-mass. I'm able to see the definition in my abs showing, my arms/shoulders/chest are gradually getting larger, and I have increased energy, stamina, and libido... all of this with NO GYM TIME... just Real Food, good Sex, and a lot of walking! ***UPDATE*** Spring '14 is here and I'm Stronger, Healthier and have even MORE Energy & Stamina!!! 6'1' ~ 205# ~ 46" chest ~ 34" waist ~ "GROK" the Caveman knows His SHIT!!! "Live Long... Drop Dead!!!" My relationships with my Mother, Family, and close Friends are Very Precious and Important. When it comes to MOM... I just quote Stevie Ray Vaughn, "You mess with Her... You'll see a Man get M-E-A-N!!!". I have two adult s and six grandren but I live alone, except for THE BOYZ!!! (two Cats that were part of the same litter) I really enjoy Dancing and I am not shy about saying that I'm pretty good at it. Don't know a "step" but I'm a Club Dancer that moves to the music that TALKS to Me! I've been told many times that my kisses take Ladies' breath away!!! I truly enjoy long, deep, sensual kisses and am not shy about showing it in public places at times. A Hug, a Kiss, and sharing each other's Breath can be EXQUISITELY EXCITING!!! ...even HOTTER on the Dance Floor! As far as Commitments and LTR's I will just say that I'm not pursuing that necessarily, but only Idiots say, "NEVER"... so who knows... they claim Bigfoot and Mermaids are real, so I suppose there MAY BE a UNICORN out there Somewhere! BLOW ME AWAY... SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET... TAKE MY BREATH AWAY... MAKE ME CRY "HAPPY TEARS" ...P-L-E-A-S-E!!! ...BUT I ain't Holdin' my Breath, neither! I truly enjoy going for a nice long Walk or drives to Wherever with the right per, live music and dancing, entertaining (whether it's for 2 or 200+), cuddling-up in front of a fire or the TV, going to the Movies, romantic candle-lit dinner and playful Breakfast-in-Bed, the Beach, the Mountains, the Desert, OREGON, and Many Other Things too numerous to list. As far as the "Smoking" thing goes, I quit smoking cigarettes about 40 years ago but I do enjoy my HERB!!! ...SOOO, if You are 420 Friendly that's great! (YES... that means I Smoke POT ...yikes!!!). I still love a really Fine Vintage Cigar now and then and I also enjoy single-malt Scotch, and GOOD Tequila!!! Other than That, I don't even take aspirin for a headache because I prefer to be in charge of my Body and Mind.

My Ideal Person AT THE PRESENT TIME... "IDEAL" would be some one who has a LIFE (personally/professionally) that They are comfortable with, but would like to find a Man who is interested in an ongoing FWB Relationship that would be best described as "the Girlfriend Experience"... Dinner, Drinks Dancing, Theater, Museums, Picnics, Hikes, Day-Trips, Over-Nighters, ETC and then go back to YOUR LIFE... and I Will Do The Same!!! If THAT WORKS... then, PLEASE KEEP READING!!!

LET'S PAUSE FOR A QUICK WORD HERE. I'm going to be BRUTALLY HONEST at this point to be VERY CLEAR about something of CRUCIAL IMPORTANCE. IF YOU cannot Truly be TOTALLY Honest and Respectful, You might as well just FORGET ABOUT ME NOW... because THOSE THINGS are DEFINITE DEAL BREAKERS and I can GUARANTEE that YOU wouldn't like ME much anyway!!! OKAY? ...then let's get back to this "Ideal Person" thing now...

I-D-E-A-L??? A strong Person... caring, considerate, compassionate, witty, TRUTHFUL, adventureous, sexy, sensual, HONEST, intelligent, opinionated, goofy-at-times, accepting-of-others, well-mannered, out-spoken...

...I Could go on, but maybe more simply I can tell You what I DON'T WANT, how's that?

If you're looking for a "Man Project" to FIX and mold into your view of the Perfect Man...

If You enjoy being with someone who wreaks of lawnmower beer and cheap after-shave as he watches endless hours of Sports on TV while he screams at the screen as if They can hear Him...

If you're idea of FUN is stringing Men along and making them think you're interested when you aren't...

If you want a Viagra-gulping jack-hammer that doesn't need any emotional connection...

If you think that Men should ALWAYS have to initiate every conversation...

If you can't appreciate sarcastic humor, the beauty of simple things, the glories of Life and Nature, and the potentially Explosive Power of a passionate Kiss...

..."IT AIN'T ME BABE!!!" -Sonny Bono

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
READ MY PROFILE THOROUGHLY AND IF YOU'RE STILL INTERESTED
AND I'LL SHARE MY EROTIC, SHORT STORY FANTASIES THAT
ARE TOTALLY FROM MY IMAGINATION AND DESIRES. Otherwise
it's just a waste of My Time... is that Honest enough
for YOU?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Food Play, Massage, Dirty Dancing as Foreplay, Ladies that Squirt get Me H-O-T!!!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, TRULY... this is a one-on-one thing with Me. If You are Ugly

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not Really... my Fantasies are typically based on something
that Actually Could Happen... BUT... if Salma Hayek, Padma
Lakshmi, Adrianna Lima, or a few select Others ever give
Me the nod... IT'S ON!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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