This profile was written 12 years ago and many things have changed. I'm now married again and my primary interest in this site is for my own self pleasure when my wife isn't in the mood (which as for many men, is far too often). I'm an energetic, smart, caring, open minded 39 year old divorced man. Very outgoing and confident on all fronts but sex and romance, where I am shy and consequently, fairly inexperienced. I have always been open minded about sex, but have always been oversensitive about "overstepping the line" and offending. Let me know what you want, and them I'm on fire... Friends would describe me as endlessly cheerfull, kind, intelligent and sometimes silly to the extreme. 5'10 1/2", 175 LBs, brown hair, blue eyes, full short beard, hairy body in decent shape. I love music, dancing, and the outdoors. Passions include the environment, helping people, real beer, good wine, good music...good love.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone to put me at ease and teach me how to be their ideal lover. Nothing turns me on more than knowing how to please a lover, and nothing about sex makes me more uncomfortable than not knowing. Teach me. I don't need to make any commitments, but if things clicked beyond the fun of the moment,you could easilly have me for keeps.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
See number four for a specific fantasy. My
fantasies don't usually involve a certain setting
or look or fetish. What makes me hot when masturbating is
what my imagined partner says and does. She takes the lead. She plays
with herself and gets off on me watching. She
talks alot, telling me what she likes in an
unrestrained way. I do it. She comes in floods.
(So do I.)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, open to explore

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
with julia butterfly, up in a redwood.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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