First ---- you guys with the creepy close up eye photos do NOT contact me. You scare me to death. I am a city gal gone country, who is obviously writing a novel here in my attempt to not waste your time. Laughter, intelligence and confidence turn me on. Arrogance turns me off. I enjoy a great restaurant but prefer picnics under the stars and dancing in the rain. Getting to know a man ---- I do not enjoy being 'wined and dined'. I am financially secure and do not feel it fair for a man to drop money in order to find out if we might be friends. Besides, how well does one get to know another in a noisy restaurant with all the distractions? Love Texas country music, the Red Dirt Circuit. Actually like most types of music. Enjoy dancing in the kitchen. Enjoy classical. Like skinny dipping, kayaking, napping in a hammock by the water, driving the back roads taking photos, cooking, disc golf, geo caching, motorcycling, reading, researching, writing, museums, theater, concerts and playing. With the right chemistry I DO love to play. I enjoy the little black dress and heels, but these days am most comfortable in my jeans and boots. I am part 'girly girl' and part 'tom boy'. It is safe to say that I am several gals rolled into one. I am a lady, tough in business, have a soft heart and mentor many young and lost, love to dress up, love playing in the dirt, part little girl. Yet, I am a very sexual woman that knows how to have a good time. I truly love being a woman and I do love men. Each man I meet has something different and unique about him, something to share. I love to play, but I do not sleep around. Friendship is key for me. If there is chemistry, playing can be passionate, hot. I prefer men younger than my peer group. I enjoy their energy and their enthusiasm for life. You older guys can contact me, but in fairness, I have to tell you that in the past my peers really have turned me off. I am open, but must be honest. I read and write erotica. Also, my favorite books are Gifts From the Sea, Old McDonald's Farm (Yes, there actually was an Old McDonald.) and the biography of Samuel Clemons. I love the 'build up', the chat, the flirting. If the relationship progresses, it can be amazingly passionate. If you are not into chat and getting to know each other, do not contact me. If you want a one night stand, I urge you to cough up the bucks and hire a gal. I am not looking for love, but for friendship with possible benefits ------ if it is right for both of us. In other words if you are just a player, with no heart, I am not your kind of woman. Do not contact me. If you are looking for the svelte, athletic, airbrushed gal, I am not her. I am a woman with a woman's body,curvy, good legs, good shoulders,good breasts and average midsection. A continued work in progress on all levels. I work out and I do take care of myself, but I am a woman, not a young girl. I am told consistently that I have a great smile and that I am pretty. I see the smile, but in the looks department, see myself as average. I am an open-minded, liberal, think outside of the box kind of woman. If you are ultra conservative, you will not enjoy me. Life can be short. I want to live it and I want to make friends that will share that with me. If you are attached, please I am not interested. Okay, now that I have written a novel, I probably stopped many of you in your tracks. If so, that is good for both of us. To all of you wonderful guys that do get in touch with me, even though we may not be right for each other, I appreciate you and wish you fun and fulfillment.

My Ideal Person Must NOT be attached. If you are, I am sorry you are not fulfilled in that relationship, but I am not the gal for you. PLEASE do not contact me.

Must have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at himself. I am turned on by intelligence mixed with a little bad boy and a lot of laughter.

If you are not a gentleman, please do not contact me. There seem to be a few of you walking around out there. I know it is cliche, but if you cannot walk the walk, DO NOT talk the talk. Please do not waste my time.

If you enjoy a woman that knows how to let go and is wild in bed, you still must be a gentleman with me. I do want you to have enough class to understand that I am still a lady outside of the bedroom and I want you to call the next day and tell me how wonderful the experience was for you ------ if it was. I cannot imagine playing with a man if I did not desire to satisfy his deepest needs.

I love a man with heart, with passion, one that is considerate and a gentleman.

A man that understands that it is the small things, the little gestures that build up and make a good relationship, whether it be just friendship or more, is a turn on for me.

One that is kind, open minded, that takes care of himself but is not self absorbed.

Play with friendship that includes passion, consideration and thoughtfulness is amazing. Even the best play without those things, will fall flat very soon.

Must enjoy playing A LOT and be clean shaven where it counts.