LadyCat49 51 / F
"select intimacy sought = unconventional non-connubial (soft for hard)"
San Diego, New York, United States
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LadyCat49 51/F
San Diego, New York
MIA on 18-Apr-2013
I am 5' 7", curves: 43-34-46, black hair - currently short, brown eyes, coffee complexion and enticing voice, intelligent too.
I love to converse as much as not.

*Can you dance? (bonus)*
my definition of sexy: someone who is able to engage in a lively conversation about a variety of topics, appreciates quality, has stamina to enjoy sustained intimacy ... tantric even
Not interested in "wham, bam, thank you ma'am"

Some telling facts about me:
My musical tastes are varied, eclectic even: Sade, Metalica, Miles Davis, Queensryche, Joan Osborne, Jill Scott, Creed, Bach, Beethoven, Hadyn, Mozart, Dwight Yoakam, Trisha , Etta James, Linkin Park, Marilyn Manson, Norah Jones, Josh Groban, James Blunt, Piazolla . . . to name a few.
I also read lots, and some of my favorite authors are: Anne McCaffery, Thomas Harris, David Feintuch, Susan Matthews, Sara Paretsky, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Alan Dean Foster, some Stephen King, Orson Scott Card, Trevanian, Martina Cole, Janet Evanovitch, James Patterson, Sue Grafton, Laurel Hamilton, Jeffery Deavers, David Drake . . . and on and on.

Also i speak pocito espanol & sukoshi nihongo.
and no, there are no more pics . . .
and I abhor drama, fakes, idiocy, and ignorance.

My Ideal Person Please send a face pic, if you wish a reply.
Ideal: you can host. First meeting will be in a neutral location.
intimacy sought, but I am discerning and selective. No succor for married men! ABSOLUTELY no anal, kink or cyber sex! preference: Am NOT very oral - either giving or receiving.

Looking for a man, who is confident first and foremost. Physically = at least 5'10" tall, good-shaped/defined/athletic body, great kisser, intelligent, and a great sense of humor. V.little or no facial hair, non-smoker (of cigarettes or the funny stuff, cigars okay (go figure ) too! No need to be gorgeous, but must appeal to me faces with character . . . Is that you?

Ideal: you can ask . . .
BTW (reiteration) I abhor drama, idiocy, and ignorance.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Intercrural sex, Frottage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 51 / female
  • San Diego, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: April 9, 1966
Travels to: Dallas, Texas, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Prefer not to say
Race: Black
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Bra Size: 38 / 85 DD (E, if no DD)
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: