Reaably experienced, easy to get along with, Full swap if we click. Lets meet for coffee, or an evening bbq, Good conversation, and then if every one is on the same page.. lets have some sexy fun. Huggs!

My Ideal Person We most enjoy expressive sensual people..

What we like the most about the lifestyle is that many of the people we have met are so outgoing and free and confident of themselves and just want to keep that outlook going. It just seems so natural to then share some sexual experience..

We are not a high volume couple.. mostly looking for a few good friends to play with and maybe meet their friends and so on.

Most of the people we have met that we play with are from private parties.. There is this epic Black Tie New years party at an estate in north San Diego County... that we just live for.

For us, meet and greet.. and see how the vibes are.. and then if we all agree some same room same couple sex.. to get things rolling and see how we might progress from there.

Recently we have been having great depth with the parts of us.. involving spanking.. we have read quite a bit about the effects on her.. how she goes to her special place of peace.. through this experience.. Any one else enjoy this.. or interested in unleashing this?

We have talked about some kind of spanking play with another couple.. or a spanking party.. upscale.. dressed up..

And through our discussing this spanking place.. and some photo sharing between us.. feeling what gets us
really enjoying the moment.. She gravitates to the idea of a female assistant.. or play thing... to spank and dominate.. to get her Vixen on with.. Get dressed up in her finest Vixen outfit.. and well you might get the idea.. Taking applications.. The two males.. could sit back and enjoy.. the show.. and then?

Books and philosophies we enjoy: David Deida, Finding God through sex. Power of Attraction, Creating 3d connection and love ( our own term )

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Participating in Erotic Photography

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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