Fervent7 49 / M
"Married, Venting, Looking, Wanting..."
Calabasas, California, United States
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Member Since: December 10, 2012

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Fervent7 49/M
Calabasas, California
Oh, the want....
Yes, I'm married, quite a long time. And that's not changing. Ever. There's just this one big glaring omission that gets to me, so I visit here, partly just to vent, to goof off, to fantasize, and... maybe... who knows?

Nothing too weird.

My wife has health issues that make all sorts of physical things much more difficult than they should be. Some things, including any kind of sex, have just become too difficult for her to even think about. So, there is none. At all. For years.

That is not reason enough to throw away everything else we have. At all. And I will not. But it does leave that yearning want that ranges everywhere from close physical intimacy to raw heated sex, a want that just won't go away, that keeps me "up" far too often. Sometimes it pounds at the mind so distractingly, and... that primal want to pound something else... someone else...

Does that sound at all familiar? Or are you looking for other reasons? Wanna talk?

My Ideal Person Someone in any sort of similar situation and/or who can empathize with such a situation, who would like to talk and compare situations, or just fantasize about what we're missing and wanting, etc. And maybe is open to more than that, if things connect and go there.

And obviously, discretion concerning all of the above is a good thing, too.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I don't know how many times I've imagined variations
of the simple scenario in which... I sit on my desk chair, with a sexy hungry woman sitting on
the floor (under the desk?) sucking my cock... Then she sits on my desk in front of me while I lick and nibble
all over her luscious wet opening... Then I stand a slip inside her and fuck her, slowly at first,
then long and hard, until we both explode. <br><br>
Sounds simple enough, right? Maybe someday.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 49 / male
  • Calabasas, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: February 23, 1969
Travels to: Carpinteria, California, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Geek
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: