Update - I'm not looking for sexual contacts at this time. I am here to enjoy the groups and interact with friends. The enigma that is me... I don't come in out of the rain, I run with scissors, I swim right after I eat, I've been known to take candy from strangers, I only use #3 pencils, I sit way too close to the TV, and if I keep [I]that[/I] up - I'll go blind! but.. I am still selective, safe, sexual, sensual and sane. What I am looking for: A man who doesn't need a set of wheels to carry his emotional baggage around with (and has matured past the third grade!). Someone who's intention is quality not quantity. Someone who believes in actions more than words. Yes, this is a sex site, but I must have a connection with the per I am intimate with. Stimulate my mind and my body will follow. Stimulate my mind and I will surpass all your expectations. Physical attraction is important, but attitude and perality mean much more to me. I find an intelligent man extremely sexy. I'm sorry, but I am not interested in married or attached men and not looking for one night stands. I'm also not interested in being someone's one of many. I am drug and disease free and I am looking for the same. thanks

Min Idealperson The male enigma, the man who thinks sex is more than a physical act.