I like women. I like to caress and hold. I find myself lingering towards napes, running my fingers through hair, giving massage, and listening. I have found listening, a hidden female erogenous zone. I enjoy giving and accepting. While not trying to boast, this is my advertising pitch: Must like long, sensual, foreplay. Don't expect this guy to rollover and pass out anytime soon. I cuddle, caress, kiss, nuzzle, and snuggle afterward. I am polite enough to see if my partner is into after play, which can lead to foreplay, then actual play. Fine line here. And, I stay the night. I appreciate women too much. Besides, what man in his right mind is going to leave the bed of a warm, sensual, willing, naked woman and go home to a cold bed? I tend to wake my lover throughout the night in the most delightful of ways. I am eclectic. My interests are numerous and diverse. I am passionate about what I do and as curious. No matter how many times life has knocked me down I always look for the good in people, get back up, and make best of the situation. I am both a realist and a dreamer with few moments of weakness and innumerable strengths. I consider myself an optimistic cynic not cynical optimist, depending on the situation. I also possess an innate sense of wonder about the world around me. At times, I get lost in the forest looking at the trees, smelling the flowers, or watching grass grow. It is what I like to call my Absent Minded Professor Mode. I analyze, adapt, improvise, and overcome. Sometimes I even plan things (laugh). As can probably tell, I can be somewhat of a talker, too! :-) No emotionally, quiet, grunting male here. I have always found myself with more female friends and acquaintances than male. Men have to have a specific rea to speak, while women can speak about anything. I join right in. Catch me in the kitchen with the ladies, while the guys watch the game on TV in silence, unless their team scores or they want another beer. The following are in no particular order: I am open-minded, empathic, intuitive, perceptive, kind, compassionate, respectful, and sensitive towards others; and definitely a romantic. It is my idiom. Yet, as any romantic, I have my demons and moments of self-reflection. Not many and easily brought back to reality with a gentle smile and warm lips. I enjoy a sharp wit and can give as well as take. I am rapacious and daring, yet wise and reserved. Strength is silence. I can admit when I am wrong and am not afraid to shed a tear or two over world events, an inspiring literary passage, a great motion picture scene, or a favorite g. I enjoy dark chocolate and multi ethnic foods. I give full disclosure and answer peral questions honestly, openly. Life is too short to play guessing games! If you would like to hear more, let me know.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a continuous companion, a friend, then go from there towards, possibly towards a LTR. Interest in another is at first sight. I believe in growing into love, rather than falling into love. I do not like the idea of falling into anything. I have no problem with physical displays of affection in public places. Must let me hold your hand; slip my arm around you, or for no apparent reason, embrace and kiss. Let me treat you like a lady in public and a licentious, lustful, libidinous lady in the bedroom. I treat women respectfully and participate in the relationship. I am passionate about life, as well as have great sensitivity and compassion towards women. And, I enjoy cuddling, too! You will find me resourceful, imaginative, thoughtful, and a great conversationalist, an even better listener.

You would like to hang at my place or yours. Not be thrown by my curious nature, attention to details, idiosyncrasies, quirks, bursts of spontaneity with whimsy, the occasional lost in thought look, and a host of other slight and amusing personality traits. You should be capable of enjoying a night at the opera or an evening of miniature golf; museums or monster truck rallies; fine shopping or flea markets; antiquing to garage sales; cat shows to gun shows; OK, you get the idea. She must have a penchant for romantic settings and long, lingering, sensual kisses. She must also find the irony in formal dress for a picnic dinner on a pedestrian overpass. A woman who can stand on her own two feet and still have need of an occasional shoulder or hug every now and then.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
A little bit from everyone

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Intercourse of course!, Open to anything mutually agreed upon.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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