I'm in mid 30s, educated, professional, well-traveled, friendly, quiet guy. I don't drink much, like outdoor sports. I'm very open-minded, non-judgmental and easy going. I am clean, ddf and discrete. I work out a few times a week, read, enjoy music, spicy food and have other interests. I don't want to take over your life, just meet our mutual needs for companionship and in time, intimacy.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a lady friend around my age group for dates, outings and to comfort each other having intimate and romantic evenings. I'm looking for someone likely in my age group who is smart, kind, can hold a conversation, has a sense of humor, is comfortable with her sexuality, and is a bit adventurous and fun loving when its time to let your hair down.

You will likely be independent and don't need or want some bloke telling you what to think, what to do or how to live your life. You would like to enjoy a conversation where the man isn't trying to chat you up.

You want a friendship with a partner who will treat you as an equal. You want someone who will listen to you and to whom your opinions matter. You want the freedom and respect to be able to disagree without that being an issue. You want acceptance just being yourself.

You would like the companionship of someone who cares about you and wants to see you. You want a friendly face across a dinner table, to walk hand in hand on a balmy summer night, to listen when you talk, be supportive and take you seriously, to share a movie with and a coffee afterwards.

You would like a considerate and sensitive lover who meets your needs and enjoys the intimacy of kisses, cuddles and caresses.