My wife and I on occasion bring others into the bedroom. We are very laid back and keep in very good shape. She likes to watch me with other women and since shes beautiful and tremendous in bed I really like to see her get into it with another man and forget I'm even in the room. Doing this kind of stuff actually brings us closer, I find a little jealousy actually keeps us grounded. Lol watching a per have sex with your partner who's obviously doing a better job than I can is quite sobering. But we have a blast, and usually make friends with those we do this with. We always aim to find a friend who's steady and we dont have more than one other per if things are working out. I am 5'10" 190lbs Italian, I keep in shape and bodybuild. Shes 5'4" about 160, very attractive and has breasts that resemble basket balls. Growing up I was told never to marry my best lay, well I ignored that advice and it has been quite an interesting sex life. I'm not picky when it comes to looking for women who are into this type of arrangement. I find that most women are very hesitant and indecisive when considering meeting us. Which I understand, but we are completely down to earth and understand that, we dont expect sex immediately if you want to first meet I'd rather not have physical contact at all than touch someone who feels obligated because of the arrangement, we are looking to meet people who we can be friends with after the sex, only people who want to do this. So any lady who's interested please say hello, I will always be flattered. I love my wife very much, and we have a blast doing this stuff....we keep this type of stuff completely quiet so rest assured we are just friends, anything that occurs in the bedroom STAYS there. As for my wife. Shes much more outgoing, and aggressive than me. Shes a bit older than me, very attractive, very friendly, and is better in the sack than anyone I've ever had, and most anyone out there has been with. I say that with respectful confidence. She likes men who take care of themselves, tall is a bonus, muscular is a bonus race white or black, shes very sexual and is into men who are VERY well endowed. Average guys aren't really gonna do it for her....she one of those ladies who likes the big ones. As her husband I'm just a bit larger than average and I'm in amazing shape but it's very humbling watching a male friend of hers who's endowed like put it on her and see just how much size actually matters. But we have a blast and dont have to lie or cheat....so we hope to meet some good people and thank you for taking time to read about us....xoxo