CheironCanSing 40 / M
"Look me in the eyes. I want to tell you I love you."
San Diego, California, United States
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Member Since: September 17, 2014

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CheironCanSing 40/M
San Diego, California
I'm not stupid. I understand that on a website like this most of the power is in the hands of the woman, who trend to get flooded with messages by guys looking for a good time. I'm not one of them. It is time to speak candidly about on-line dating. Truth be told I have very high standards and I make a terrible first impression. Just being honest. Early on in a relationship I come across as being shy. I'm not, I just come across that way. When you get to know me you will find I really am amazing. I'm really not a fan of on-line dating although I've known people who have had great success with it. For me relationships are all about chemistry. It's hard to beat being able to meet this many single women in one place. You can read though profiles until you're blue in the face but person to person contact is the only way to develop a relationship. I hate to say this, but in most cases meeting someone for the first time there may not be that big of connection. Hearts grow together. Think about the people you first fell in love with. Most of the time it was someone you knew. You grew up together, hung out with the same friends, had the same classes. My point is there is so much more to finding a person who is worthy of your love than reading a profile and meeting them once. I'm not here to find a girl to f*ck, I'm here to find someone who shares my interest and wants to develop a relationship with someone that can be a best friend first. All great relationship start with good friends. You could argue this with lust and sexual attraction with at least some merit, but those things tend to fade with time. In that time friendship and a bond will from or that relationship is doomed to failure. So, about me: I'm super ambitious and don't settle for second best. I'm loyal to a point that if I care about you your needs, in most cases, will come before mine. My attitude is overwhelmingly positive. Sexually I enjoy controlling my partner. These can mean many things. I also enjoy a woman that knows what she want both sexually and in life. Once in a great while I find it fun to allow a woman to control me, but this is not the norm. I like Heavy Metal music. I sing in a progressive deathcore band and love it. I have a great career in the Marine Corps and I am looking forward to a very young retirement. I have great survival skills and know how to live off grid, but I prefer the conveniences of modern life. I am a firm believe that age is a number. I've dated younger and older woman. At this point in my life I am looking for someone who wants to have children with in the next 4 to 5 years. I tend to connect better with younger woman and this has absolutely nothing to do with age. Don't be offended by this I am not saying that I wouldn't date an older woman. What I am saying is when it comes to interests and thing to do and talk about I have more in common with younger women. I listen to Dub step, heavy metal, some top 40, and I like doing very competitive and adventurous things. If your idea of good time is sit on a couch watching TV or movies, yeah I probably wanting to hang out at a club, take a long drive to somewhere I've never been, explore the city I live in and love, and explore other cities that are close like LA, Las Vegas, and Phoenix. My music is a big deal to me. In the next few months my band and I are going to start playing live in San Diego. I live my life a 100 miles an hour, if you are going to be a part of it get in, put your seat belt on and find something to hold on to or just hold on to me. If you read this far you might be the girl for me. Send me a message. Remember this whole on-line dating thing gives you(the woman) the power. So, if I have peeked your interest don't be shy.

My Ideal Person Honesty, loyalty, and the ability to think for yourself are the traits I admire most in a woman. How she is around children is also something I would be paying attention to. I'm not looking of an automaton or a girl who need a man to tell her what to do or how to feel. I need a partner that understands me and can communicate me. A partner who understand that our lives and goals are a team effort. If you where a little on the kinky side that wouldn't hurt. One last thing must MUST maintain a positive attitude.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An emty rest stop on a road not so traveled.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 40 / male
  • San Diego, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: July 17, 1977
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Other
Have Children: No
Want Children: Yes
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses