What you're likely to notice first: red curly hair and an English accent. I guess I'm descended from the Vikings? I certainly identify with Boudicca, Joan of Arc and other feisty women. If you can you handle the heat there's a big payoff - a bit like a chilli coated chocolate truffle - the inside is soft and squidgy and quite delicious. I love being a woman and I love men who love and respect women. I revel in the feminine: beautiful clothes, caring for myself - mind and body - with healthy food, a healthy environment and exercise. I fully embrace my sexuality. Humour is very important to me, I love to laugh.

Mi persona ideal: A man who has all the attributes of masculinity - strength (physical and emotional), power (who doesn't love muscle?) youth (and that's not always about age). He has respect, for himself and others. His feminine aspect is revealed only in his gentle, affectionate and loving self