BodhiTN 55 / M
"A question of time"
Franklin, Tennessee, United States
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Member Since: December 19, 2001

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BodhiTN 55/M
Franklin, Tennessee
Time is of the essence ... each moment past is an opportunity missed. If, as Kipling suggested, we can fill each minute with sixty seconds of distance run, we can rest, satisfied with the fulfillment of life's promise.

What makes your minutes worth living? What fills your heart to the fullest? Is it a long walk in the cold rain, followed by slow, warm love-making near the hot fire? Or a long, luxurious bath with your man attentively cleaning your body while dirtying your mind? Or is it hours of slow, probing, intimate talk, followed by endless seconds of urgent, wild passion?

I believe in exploring the whole of the spectrum, and I embrace many of life's contradictions: creative yet analytical, quiet yet passionate, energetic yet calm. Life is an adventure, and I expect to explore it fully, not according to the rules of others, but according to what experience proves worthwhile.

Sex should be no different -- being good at being really bad, or exploring the heat of the moment, even if it means using Cool Whip or ice cubes. Fast yet slow, deliberate yet wild, emotionally grounded yet passionate and zipless -- the endless contradictions must be explored.

Life is a series of moments, and each can be made essential. Care to join me in fulfilling the promise of time?

My Ideal Person A woman committed to herself and her growth on all levels (orgasm included) ... and committed enough to spend significant time each day exploring that growth. She would be unafraid of the "rules", or how it looks to others when she breaks them. She should be willing to be playful, yet serious about her passion ... and unwilling to give up until she's drained.

As with parachutes, hearts, minds and attitudes only function when open, so she would have to open to try new things. I would hope she'd be as willing to teach as to learn (two sides of the same coin), to lead as to follow, and to suggest as to consider suggestions.

Most importantly, she must appreciate the value of each moment ... and be willing to invest full value in it, in herself and in me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Oh lordy! It starts with myself and my lady on an isolated beach at sundown. Gentle breezes, glasses of wine, and sensual touching turns into a fiery furnace of passionate sharing. After nearly melting, we take a quick dip in the ocean and then return for more fun by a roaring campfire. And some days, the fantasy has another beauty watching in secret and touching herself behind a nearby tree, only to be discovered when she can't contain her moans any longer. And then she joins us as we share deep into the warm night.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The stadium during a sporting event

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 55 / male
  • Franklin, Tennessee, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: July 29, 1962
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Prefer not to say
Occupation: Other
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, French, Russian
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None