BessStarlight 46 / F
"Taking a much needed break"
undisclosed, Maryland, United States
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: February 8, 2004

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BessStarlight 46/F
undisclosed, Maryland
Sorry to disappoint, but AdultFriendFinder has become more frustrating than fun. Good luck to you. Bess

I'm married. I met him here and he knows I'm on here to chat and flirt.
We are also looking to play with other couples, so please don't be shy.

I like intelligent, playful conversation that has an easy flow to it rather than an interview. Flirting and phone sex turn me on, as does talking about fetishes, fantasies and past encounters. Theater, movies, music, gardening, sketching and painting, travel and trying new restaurants are other pasttimes I enjoy. Camping and going to sporting events can be fun, but otherwise, I am neither outdoorsy nor athletic.

We are open to swinging - together and solo - but not with everyone we meet. We have rules in place; please be respectful of them. No friends, co-workers or anyone who lives within an hour of our house. I do not post or trade pics. First 2 meetings are public, vanilla dates to gauge chemistry and level of desire.

I am not interested in being with anyone who drinks to excess or uses illegal drugs of any kind.

My Ideal Person Chemistry is HUGE for me - we either click or we don't.
But please refrain from being rude. If you are married, please be honest and say so. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear, tell me who you really are and what you really want. The more clever your opening line, the more likely I will chat with you.

Age 40 - 50, dark hair, light eyes, nice build, gainfully employed and unattached or part of a swinging couple always a plus, but not mandatory.

Thanks for reading my profile

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to name

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Making out, Sex with an audience

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 46 / female
  • undisclosed, Maryland, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: March 1, 1972
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: BBW
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Marketing
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Protestant
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 44 / 100 D
Speaks: English, Spanish
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses