I'm an honest, funny, and passionate man who's looking for fun and frolic with the right woman. I'm not some knuckle-dragging Neanderthal doofus. I don't have a lot of emotional baggage, weird sexual hangups or screwed-up commitment phobias. I'm simply a above-average, decent man, thoughtful and attentive, looking for a friend, lover and (hopefully), a long term relationship. I'm weary of game-players and/or just casual sex. I'm looking for more fulfilling from a woman...so if you're just looking for online fantasy stuff, or a cheater, moving out of state soon, skip my profile. I love music (R&B, rock, soul, jazz, funk, classical, chillout), old movies, pizza, roller coasters, my Irish heritage, hiking in the autumn woods, holding hands, spontaneous displays of affection, reading, my beagle, living near the ocean, red wine, film noir, full-figured women, my iPod, looking up at the starry night sky, funny and intelligent people, good conversations, roller coasters, the NY Giants and Yankees, TCM, long, lazy, love-making sessions, thunderstorms, and the warm, romantic glow from a fireplace. I dislike pressing "1 for English", super-loud gangsta blasting from passing cars, slow drivers who hog the fast lane, that weird squeak styrofoam makes, spiders, wasps, circus clowns, the odor of cigarette smoke, inconsiderate clods who shout in public while using their Bluetooth devices, cheaters, chimps, animal abuse, the gloomy month of February, rednecks on the Jerry Springer Show, and suburban s who think they're gangstas. Oh, and Shetland ponies. I'm a sensual and passionate lover, with few hang-ups or taboos between me and my lover...I'm open to almost any fantasy, except hardcore pain and poop (ugh). I'm not going to bamboozle now you about what a great guy I am...let's get to know each other a little first. You can decide for yourself. If you want to know more about my likes/dislikes, hopes and dreams, and sexual fantasies I'd enjoy hearing about yours, too. Contact me here and let's chat. You'll be glad you did.

My Ideal Person I'm really attracted to cute, creative, passionate and sensual women --of all shapes and sizes--who have a good sense of humor, are down-to-earth, open-minded, and fun.
And I'm searching for a meaningful, enjoyable connection that (hopefully) will grow into a long term romance...not a "wham-bam-thank you ma'am" one night stand.

I like to be with a honest, monogamous woman who enjoys life and sex, and is a passionate, sensual lover.

I'm looking for "real-time" dates only, so if you just want to play online games or are unsure of what you want, cheating on your husband/wife/significant other, not over your "ex", moving out of state soon, or aren't ready for a loving and long-term relationship, just move on and please find someone else.
Don't waste my time, please.

I know what I want and I'm not going to settle for less.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beethoven, Elton John, Boz Scaggs, Pink Floyd, Hall&Oates,
ZZ Top

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll share that with you when the time is right.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Except for when I was a kid (and had the famous Farrah Fawcett
poster), I don't fantasize about celebrities; they're
spoiled, ultra-rich, above-the-law phonies who don't
interest me, outside of an occasional article in "Entertainment
Weekly". I prefer smart, sensual and savvy, "real
women", of all shapes and sizes (eg, in Dove soap's
"Campaign for Real Beauty").

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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