We're just ordinary people who are laid back and work too much. We're looking to meet new people and make new friends. We're very much in love with each other so not trying to replace 1 another or ruin relationships and/or marriages! WE DON'T DO DRAMA!!!! She's kinda inexperienced, looking for her BBC buddy(s). Long term friendships are the goal with boyfriends. He sometimes watches, sometimes joins in (straight only), and sometimes neither. We like to make home movies at times, so if you're ok with that its even better. We've done the hotel room situation a little, and we're interested in including other activities as well if she finds the right person. She enjoys the romantic approach, and he enjoys seeing her have a relationship if it develops. We dont have rules as such, we like to explore options. (Try anything once, twice if it was hot, lol.) Flexible on schedules, not into a quickie, hit and run, blow and go, one night stand, kum and go outlook as much as we're into a little more of a "treat her like an occasional girlfriend" type of deal. We're drawn to the poly lifestyle a bit, but dont see it being practical long-term. He is not into humiliation or cuckolding, just seeing that his hot wife receive attention and gratification.