BJ_Luvin_Wife 40 / 34 / C
"Back from a 2-year break"
St Louis Metro, Illinois, United States
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Member Since: October 6, 2014

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BJ_Luvin_Wife 40/C
St Louis Metro, Illinois
First time back on here in a year. Let's see what happens this time around...
We're a happily married couple with a great sex life; however, every now and then we like to spice things up a bit. Wife enjoys MFM and couples play. We're definitely real with pics and video to prove, but we are in no particular rush to hook up with anyone that messages us. We just kind of go with the flow, but on our schedule which can be pretty hectic.

Her: 5'3", 125 lbs, bi-curious, black, slim and curvy
Him: 6'0", 215 lbs, straight, mixed, athletic and muscular

Now how do you get to meet us is the real question anyone on here wants to know when going thru profiles. First off, we understand everyone on here wants to hook up, but we won't mess around with anyone without meeting first. That's typically over drinks so we can see what the chemistry is like and go from there. Second, we get a lot of messages and we don't have time to respond to everyone so we have to be somewhat picky. So what can you do to separate yourself from the crowd?

1. Have more than one picture. No profile pic = no response.
2. Don't be disrespectful. My husband filters the messages before I read them, so if you say something like "ditch him and let me fuck you" I can guarantee you that's not getting a response...and yes we get occasional messages like that.
3. Provide a more stimulating initial message than "Hi"...
4. Confidence goes a long way. We're looking for people that know what they want to do and how they want to do it. Tell us, and if what you say peeks our interest then we'll respond.

My Ideal Person We are looking for DDF, well groomed, men, women, and couples that are confident, assertive, yet respectful. Looking to meet friends first and benefits may follow.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No celebrity in particular.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 40/34 / Couple (man/woman)
  • St Louis Metro, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman) or Groups
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: No
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: November 20, 1977 September 4, 1983
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm 5 ft 3 in
Body Type: Athletic Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Network Admin Medical
Race: Mixed Black
Religion: Agnostic Christian
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 34 / 75 D
Hair Color: Black Brown
Hair Length: Short Medium
Eye Color: Brown Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None None