BELOW IS MY ORIGINAL LISTING BUT---- Lately, I am exploring my more SUBMISSIVE side. I have found that I like being the follower and not lead. Not interested in being ordered around and lead with hostility but am willing to do as I am told for a strong leader. I am ready to follow.......................... I AM A STANDARD MEMBER SO CAN'T READ MESSAGES OR ANYTHING THESE DAYS. I WILL MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO LET YOU KNOW i SEE YOUR INTEREST I am new to exploring sexual freedom and openness. I am here to discover new things and perhaps meet like minded people. I have been straight all my life and want to see what it is like to try new things. Whether with a man or woman or more, I am open to suggestion and want to go down new and exciting paths. Tell me about YOUR path and how I might go that way. I look forward to knowing more ! Update: still learning....always seeking to learn more. Discovered I LIKE bottom and want to explore THAT more. Need a per nearby that can "play" during the day....ya never know !!!!

My Ideal Person Discretion is a must, of course and I am never able to host. The ideal person would be one that tends to take the lead, as a lot of this "different" stuff is new to me and, even at my age, I still have a bit of a shy streak. I wouldn't call myself submissive but I DO lean that way. Show me new things.i WANT to learn and experiment.
MY free time is limited but I can often get away early weekdays and would love to be introduced to new things in the sex realm (Not bondage.....I have to have control of myself and no excrement play...yuck). I have an open mind and try very hard to be NON judgmental. Tell me what you like...if it's not for me, I would just politely decline....no judgement....we all like what we like !!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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