Hi Thank you for looking at my profile Its importantI am not looking to be party to a clandestine affair I am not looking to be your quotwhen In NYC I fuck you girl I am not looking for strangers to give me cunnilingus I am not looking to be your MILF or quotolder womanquot adventureI am not looking to be your BBW adventure Local to me means LOCAL These are all perfectly fine things to look for Do not ask me Save us both time If any or all of the above are your end goal no need to bother with me YOU ARE NOT THE SPECIAL EXCEPTION Good luck in your searchI do not want to chat meet play cam or anything else if you are married partnered ethically nonmonogamous a thrupple a triad a dyad a naiad a tetrahedron in an open marriage are a swingeror any other configuration you can come up with YOU DO YOU I want ONE single man ThanksIf youre looking for something else I invite you to read onI am experienced and love to play I am looking for an experienced educated interesting and rational top or dominant man to tie me up torment tease and hurt me with enthusiasm and talent within the context of an ongoing relationship It doesnt have to be an escalator relationship I simply do not open my legs casually There has to be some sort of basic level of connection in order for me to want to play with you on a regular basis If we happen to fall in love so much the better If youre a Daddy Dom type I would be open to talking to you about that tooUntil we have met in person I expect you to interact with me with respect and good manners just like you would with a vanilla woman in a bar or restaurant If you cant do that dont contact me Do not be from Long Island or Queens impossible to manage travelwise It doesnt matter if youre willing to travel to me Do not IM me while masturbating Do not ask me if I like chocolatebig dicksBBChot young studsanything remotely objectifying or fetishy I like human beings as a starting point Be Croatian Mongolian or Martian Just dont be grossquotExperiencedquot means you have played intensely in a BDSM reallife context for years It does NOT mean you have read Fifty Shades of Grey and have a pair of handcuffs I love rope chain manacles leather restraints cuffs etc I enjoy being flogged but spanking and judicious use of a single tail are always very nice I love being teased I love toys like vibrators clamps clothespins wax play etc and have no problem with sensory deprivation gags hoods and blindfolds I am not into tape saran wrap vet wrap or anything sticky I love being teased and tormentedI am a lot of fun No I absolutely positively will not send you a photo PeriodFINALLYI am a lovely person despite the underlying exasperation in this profile which has more to do with the site than anything else I have many interests outside of this If you have the kind of background that meshes with my kinks and you would like to know more about me outside of my BDSM pera just ask Wit sophistication and good conversation are important to me I am welltraveled and wellreadCOLOR crimCOLORCOLOR darkredCOLOR

My Ideal Person Is extremely intelligent is funny in a clever way is good looking with a full head of hair and has an advanced degree He reads He doesnt open a conversation on here or elsewhere with a photo of his penis He understands that that is stupid and offputting He appreciates a sense of humor in his partner isnt intimidated by strong women and doesnt take himself too seriously He doesnt talk about the sweetness of a subs tears call me quotsubbiequot or think he has the right to call himself Sir or Master in an initial conversation with me He is a nice normal healthy person with lots of vanilla interests and doesnt think the entire world revolves around kink He likes womenPlease bear in mind this is quotideal personquot You can be bald and awesome and perfect for me BALD MEN ARE FINE Etcetera Just use your best judgement

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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