I have scaled back the group play and just wanting to do what I like most...playing with couples and women (married or single without the drama). I am a single male looking for real down-to-earth women and couples in their 40s 50's and 60's. that enjoy having an experienced older man, that enjoy life and sex, want to expand their experiences, want someone that could be a regular partner(s), someone that is a gentleman, enjoys making a new friend, and seriously want to get together and play. I am open and honest in what I say and do and expect the same from my partners. I have been in the lifestyle for many years, have made some wonderful friends, and enjoyed some great sex over the years. I am an easy per to know, outgoing with a good sense of humor, respectful, patient, open-minded to trying new things, non-smoker, discreet if needed, clean and DDF checked often, vascectomy safe and shooting blanks, like giving and receiving oral, discrete if needed, and like making love to a woman (the toe curling type) not just having sex. I am open-minded and enjoy helping a woman or couple live out their fantasies and open to trying things within both of our comfort zones. Women: I just want to add this. If you're looking for Mr. Right, I'm not it...I like being single. If you are okay with friendship and bedroom fun, then we might just hit it off. I am presenting myself to you honestly and upfront about what I like and want from sex with a woman or couple and what I can do for a woman or couple to make our time together fun. If you are interested in knowing me, contact me, I would want you to be as open and honest with me, and if we make a date to meet be serious about meeting. If you don't have a pic in your profile, please send one when you contact me. I want my partners to be comfortable and at ease with me and enjoy our time together. Sex is about us having a great time together and enjoying a good friendship. Meet and greet with me once, and you will see that I am the genuine thing. Play with me once, and you will want to play again.

My Ideal Person I enjoy playing with couples and have been in the lifestyle for many years. I enjoy helping a couple fulfill their fantasies and enhancing their sex lives. I am never pushy and as your guest will respect your limits. Being with a couple is about pleasing her and making her the focus of that pleasure by both of us. I make love to a woman. I am open-minded and like learning new ways to enjoy sex as well as showing a couple things that they may have never tried. I am also okay with the husband just watching, directing, participating, and/or taking pics. I am also very attracted to Latinas or a couple where the wife is latina.
For a woman: I make love to a woman...so many men don't take the time to make a woman's toes curl. I enjoy extended sessions of oral sex and love seeing and hearing a woman enjoying what I am doing to her. I am a slow lover with a soft touch, love the eye contact and talking without saying a word, the kissing, and the stroking. I am an attentive lover. I love exploring a woman's body, finding the places where her nerve endings are the most sensitive while incorporating parts of tantric sex to help her slowly build to a huge orgasm and more. I look for women that are willing to relax, open their minds and senses, and allow a man to take charge of their body for a couple hours or so of pleasuring. Whatever her level of comfort is in sex, I want to find it in her. Sex is about the fun, friendship, and living out the fantasy. Married women are not a problem for me as long as the drama is left at home. This is about giving you something different, to give you excitement that you may not have seen in awhile and are missing, try aspects of sex that you have never tried, and to make you feel like a desirable woman.
I am discreet if needed and do not judge. Everyone should enjoy a great sex life no matter what their status. I don't BS and expect the same.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
elvis t busboy

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage, squirting women, DP

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, has a high sex drive

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
eva mendez, kate capshaw, selma huyatt

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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