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L0gan5 38 M
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IM limits for standards

1/16/2019

So after a couple away from the site, I came back and
was surprised that they have put even more restrictions
on standard members. Standards are limited to 3 "Chat
invites" per day unless you spend points, but either
the wording or the ruling on what an invite is can't
be right. Even if someone else messages me first and I want
to reply, I have to use one of my 3 daily messages. <br><br>
Per the wording below, I was lead to believe you can only
INITIATE three chats per day, but if someone else messages
you first, that shouldn't count against your daily
limit. <br><br>
Does anyone else agree with me or feel that their wording
is misleading? <br><br>
Standard members can only initiate 3 instant
conversations per day.

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I would agree 100% and unfortunately, only posting on here for a few measley point for a slight chance of a hope.

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It does not matter if I agree or disagree...it's their site...

.....call Customer Service & they'll jump right on it!

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This is done to force people to become paying customers. Use your three instant messages per day wisely and find other ways to obtain points.

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It definitely is misleading. I am not going to complain about initiating 3 chats per day if I don't pay, but if someone sends me a chat request and I accept it, it should not count against me. Let's be semi reasonable.

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It makes no difference what anyone thinks, but here goes. I think you should pay up or shut up. There should be a limit as to how many times you whining fucks can complain on the A\L. Standard members should have to use points, or money, to post anything, anywhere, anytime. Enough! I've felt your pain! I feel it, no more! Anyone who pays, should not be subjected to your bullshit! GO THE FUCK AWAY!! Sulk in silence, BITCH! Before you start that "but you're a standard" bullshit about me, FUCK YOU! I'm not a whiner!

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quote LaidbackFoCoDave:
It definitely is misleading. I am not going to complain about initiating 3 chats per day if I don't pay, but if someone sends me a chat request and I accept it, it should not count against me. Let's be semi reasonable.
You be reasonable! Sulk in silence!

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I agree it is misleading. But there shouldn’t be a three chat limit to begin with. As a standard member why would I pay for gold membership if I had such a shitty experience with standard. According to this site gold can give me basic user functionality that literally every other digital service today can give me for free. The only difference is that this site openly advertises that users meet users for sex. They should have done a two day trial period at least so new members can experience the basic functions of this site and then decide if they want to pay for gold.

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The IM is a waste of space. The damn thing rarely works and if it does it drops messages all the time. It's a pawn to draw your wallet out that all. Gold member or not it doesn't matter. Tested it with a friend and it dropped the majority of the messages sent back and forth. The little icon at the top in the black bar that you can change from available to not available will kick you off on incoming messages. I ve sat and watched it do it. Sometimes the message will come through then it kicks you off right away other time the message just gets dropped and you get kicked off. For all of you ragging on this guy for not being a paying member it doesn't matter the only difference is standard members aren't getting ripped of paying for a shitty service that's busted 99% of the time.

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I agree 100%. Should not count against you.

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I totally agree, if someone sends you a message, it should not count against your limit. I also do not think it is right that if someone sends you a message, you cannot read it. If they want to have limits, then it should go across the board, how many "fake" female accounts send messages? Are they limited also? It does not seem that way. I can see the point in limiting standard members from sending messages, but it is not right to not let them reply to them. Just my two cents....

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quote Attentive14Fun:
The IM is a waste of space. The damn thing rarely works and if it does it drops messages all the time. It's a pawn to draw your wallet out that all. Gold member or not it doesn't matter. Tested it with a friend and it dropped the majority of the messages sent back and forth. The little icon at the top in the black bar that you can change from available to not available will kick you off on incoming messages. I ve sat and watched it do it. Sometimes the message will come through then it kicks you off right away other time the message just gets dropped and you get kicked off. For all of you ragging on this guy for not being a paying member it doesn't matter the only difference is standard members aren't getting ripped of paying for a shitty service that's busted 990f the time.
I 'm not ragging about not paying. I'm ragging about him, and you, being a squat to piss, whining little BITCH! GO AWAY! You're beating a dead horse!

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I couldn't agree more. Standard gets you very little here but the sight is so unreliable that it's doesn't make any sense to pay for it.

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There is no question shouldn't count

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You're absolutely right. It's a rip off for standards.

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sadly, their site, their rules.....................

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quote villeguy4fun:
I couldn't agree more. Standard gets you very little here but the sight is so unreliable that it's doesn't make any sense to pay for it.
I've seen you on here for some years. I can understand not paying. Why bitch and complain? What do you gain?

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quote q_d_mcgraw:
I've seen you on here for some years. I can understand not paying. Why bitch and complain? What do you gain? [image]
What are you gaining by cussing me and everyone else out? You haven't added anything productive to this discussion

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I'm making my point drive home! You're a whining bitch of the lowest order! We're sick of it! If you don't like it, leave! If you stay, SHUT THE FUCK UP!




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I am fine with the 3 limit, and totally understand the reasoning behind it, but for the number of No Shows ,Profile readers, I find it is no longer worth the $96($103) subscription price. I was gold for years ,and did achieve a rate of success, but not enough to re-new, when there are other sites that serve the same purpose, with no fees attached. Agree or disagree, your prerogative ,just my opinion.

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It's a little frustrating to be honest

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The site is a business a d likes to make money. Continue blogging and perhaps join a group?

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If you dont like it, go find another site. I buy gold once in a while, but I’m fine with the limit when I’m a standard because I know better than waste my time with it.

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I do not understand why you spend time bitching about the site, if you are selective about how you IM it still works to get you laid, just not costing a hundred dollars.
I have been successful on here both as a paying Gold Member, as a member getting awarded free gold for my cam shows, and as just an ordinary standard member. Success rate is probably the same all three ways of doing it.
Stop whining

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I agree, what is worse is when they limit us standard members, they are also limiting paid members as we cannot contact them or reply

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