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My Magazine > Editors Archive > Sexpert > Ask Tera: Jiz to Fuzz
Ask Tera: Jiz to Fuzz   by Tera Patrick -- and You, Our Members

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Visit Tera at her site, www.clubtera.com.

When she first came onto the adult scene Tera Patrick's film work caught everyone's eye; she was voted the "Best New Starlet" from Cannes to AVN (2001-2). One of the most popular adult stars out there, Tera Patrick has captured best-of status at all the hot men's magazines -- Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler -- she was Penthouse's 2002 Pet of the Year and Hustler's 2002 Hustler Honey. Now Tera runs her own adult film production company "Teravision" while zig-zagging across the country filming and making appearances. And luckily for AdultFriendFinder, she finds time to answer our sex-related questions.

[Questions are carefully selected by Tera from the many member questions posted on our Advice Lines (see left-hand column of the Magazine) and used by members' permission. It's just another of the fun, sexy connections AdultFriendFinder has to offer!]

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Excuse me while I gargle?
Hi Tera,
Any advice on how to graciously handle getting a mouthful of really nasty tasting cum? I don't mind getting a mouthful, but I've been surprised a couple of times by this, and I don't think running as fast as I can for the mouthwash is the politest thing to do.
SoftBody2Enjoy

Hi SoftBody,

In the adult business, taking strange cum in your mouth is an occupational hazard. While I only swallow my man’s cum, it is not unusual to find some in your mouth during a sex scene. There is the old, “let it drip out of your mouth down your chin, without breaking eye contact! That usually gets them every time. Most men don’t really care what happens once they have shot their load, so be polite, and don’t spit in disgust. If I am concerned, I usually ask them to cum on my tits or my pussy. If they think it turns you on, they will do it for you! Shit, I love feeling hot cum drip down my ass crack!

How do I get my wife to open up and tell me her fantasies?
Dear Tera,
I have been with my wife for 17 years and for the most part we have a good sex life. Just recently we started talking about fantasies. I'm open and willing to share mine, but she just isn't and it's affecting our sex life. I used to write her dirty stories about her fucking other men (yes I would love to see that) and we do fuck with the dildo like it's someone else, but I just feel like she is holding back and I want more. I love her but I really want her to be more open so that we can really start to have great sex.
giver6783

Mr. Giver.

The more you communicate the better a chance she will share. She may be conditioned by society to be ashamed of her fantasies, or she may even feel like she is betraying you by wanting to be with other men. 17 years is a long time. Be patient, as I am sure you are, and encourage her that it turns you on to think of her as so sexual. As a woman, I want to feel safe with my partner, like I can tell them anything, but there is always that underlying fear that we may take it too far and make someone jealous.

Best Sex for a Sore Body
Hi there Tera,
I would like to ask what is the best sex for a tired body? I over-exercise sometimes, leaving my entire body sore. I usually don't let that interfere with sex, but sometimes
it's just too great a strain. I would like to hear suggestions for the best way to orgasm without putting forth too great an effort.
SeductiveStudent (Male)

Student:
Great question. After A long day on the set, a lot of travel, or just exhaustion, I personally enjoy slow, spoon style sex. I like to lay on my back, with my guy on his side, fucking me slowly. No one is supporting their own body weight. If he is really tired, I usually lie him down, and give him a blowjob. This is one of my favorite things to do. I feel extremely empowered to make a man cum with my mouth and hands!

What's dp like?
Hi Tera,
I am very interested and anxious to try being dp'd. I am, though, wondering what it's like, and if it's all it's made up to be. I of course love intercourse and am still a newby at anal, which over time I have found out that you can have some awesome orgasms that way...WOW!!...Any comments or suggestions would appreciated....
spunky4it3

Well Spunky,
I too have recently discovered the amazing orgasms of anal sex. I do enjoy two men, but I have never done a DP before. I am interested in trying it, and have directed dp scenes in my Teravision films, but I am still on the fence. It seems like there would be a lot going on down there. I do love being stuffed like a turkey, and having my holes stretched, but I am still kinda intimidated. Stay tuned!

Is Porn Real?
Hi Tera,
As I am a very BIG fan of watching porn, I want to know from u sex-experts if every thing shown and done in porn movies real/ normal.??
SexualSedative

Dear Sedative,
Do you think everything you see in any arena is all "real"? What is "real?" I will say for sure, that there are times, when porn stars shoot "softcore" or simulated” sex. Which is not real. For me though, the sex is as real as I can get it! I love to have sex so much, and I do my best to pick the hottest partners, both male and female. I have been known to take a long time on the set, because I have had multiple orgasms that lasted so long, the film ran out! Lol. It is kinda hard for men to fake cumshots, but there are some companies that go to the trouble of creating fake ones, that are either digitally generated, or even some people use cetaphyl soap. And regarding normal? I guess normal is average, and that is not really in my repertoire!!!

Where do I draw the line on kinky?
Hi Tera,
I know this guy who enjoys having fingers and beads up his ass and he's straight. What do you think? Is that just a bit too kinky for your taste?
ivy062204

Well Ivy,
I would guess he may not be as straight as you or he thinks. Different streaks for different freaks of course. I try not to judge on what turns people on. But personally, I am very turned off by men who want to be penetrated. I think it is cool that they want to experiment, but it is just not something that I am down for.

How much hair is ok?
I'm a naturally a hairy person. It runs in the family. How much hair on a man's body is too much? And how much is too little?
jdwing, M

Jd,
Obviously shaving a hairy body baby smooth is way too much work. Trimming however is mandatory. Run a mower over that lawn Mr. Hairy! DO you like a hairy pussy? You never know, with all this 70s retro, your hairy body just may come back in style. The USA is a lot less pro hair than a lot of other places in the world. IN japan, long pubes are a fetish that seems to be second to none right now!

Rock out with your hairy cock out!!!

XOXO,
Tera

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