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My Magazine > Editors Archive > Sexpert > 5 Ways to Please Your Mouth (with Your Man) -- A Woman’s Secrets
5 Ways to Please Your Mouth (with Your Man) -- A Woman’s Secrets   by Jenny Friend

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Yes, you hear me right ‒ and I said it right! This article is indeed about how to please your mouth with your man. You may not want to tell him, though! He might feel used. Or maybe you should ask him first. Your call really. You know your man better than I do. Whichever you decide, have fun.

ONE: Are you one of those women who likes putting little kisses/nibbles ‒ or snuzzles - around a babies neck cause it's so soft? Then you have oral aptitude and an oral appetite that needs to be fed. Just wait till your lips sample the softness of the under side of your man’s corona (the little ridge where the head of his penis meets his shaft). It’s as soft as any baby’s neck I’ve ever snuzzled! And it responds as cute as a baby, too; bouncing all over the place, making cute sounds, and maybe even drooling a little!


TWO: Speaking of drooling, you know how you can really get a baby going by sucking its neck into your mouth ‒ and experiencing the marvelous soft delicateness of its skin on your mouth? You can also do that with your man. There are two really good places. A lot depends on how hairy your man is ‒ and how much you like or dislike hair, especially in your mouth.

First is the head ‒ especially when your man isn’t circumcised. Just suck the whole thing into your mouth. Can’t have tight jaw for this so make sure you’re not carrying a bunch of stress there. By drawing it all into your mouth, your whole mouth gets to experience his magnificent softness.

Second is the area where his scrotum meets his perineum. This is kind of a tricky place to get to and you have to be very conscious of what you’re doing. Good thing finding this exquisitely soft place way down underneath his scrotum, in its self is a fascinating journey of soft delicateness.

The journey begins by getting your tongue under the scrotal sac (the loose skin around his testicles). Depending on the size of his scrotum, his position, and his excitement level, this will be more or less tricky. When your man has a lot of loose skin, carefully lift it a little at a time with your tongue. Lift it high enough to allow the testicle to roll away so you can safely and slowly draw the sac into your mouth.

Slide your tongue in a little more and repeat till you get to the skin joining the scrotal sac and the perineum (the space before the anus). How much of the sac you have to hold in your mouth to reach the area is usually related to how often this skin gets exposed or touched. The more you have to hold, the less it gets exposed and touched, usually, and so the softer and more sensitive it is. This is usually what accounts for the drooling, too. Oh, well. Just give him a drool towel.


THREE: While you’re at the base of your man’s penis, you might as well please your mouth with the great spot on the other side of the scrotal sac. It’s right where the base of the penis is joined to the sac. Let your tongue enjoy the discovery of yet another place where your man is as soft as a baby. Don’t hold back if you want to let your lips feel it. It’s easier to let go. Decide for yourself which is your favorite ‒ don’t let the amount of drool sway you, we’re focusing on your pleasure this time.


FOUR: You’re at the root of your man’s blood flow. If you’ve never followed the heat up his shaft you’re in for a BIG treat. The treat starts when you leave the base and slowly follow the bulge of his vein originating there. Your man’s bulge may be more or less obvious due to several things that are of no concern, this is about YOU!

The bulge is the vein that supplies blood for your man’s erectile tissue (the stuff that makes his penis grow as it fills). The skin over it is soft and delicately thin. Sample the vein with your lips. Think of it, your man’s very blood flow is under your lips. Can you let yourself experience it?
Can you feel the heat of his blood? You can flick the vein with the tip of your tongue or lavish it with a flat wide tongue as you did with the corona. Try both, see which YOU prefer.

When you first start you may be able to draw the vein into your mouth a tiny bit. As your man grows wider and longer, you may have to open your mouth across his width to let more of your mouth in on the treat; kind of like you were giving him a GENTLE hickey there.

To get the full experience, kiss, lick and suck your way all the way to the top where you’ll find the fifth way to please your mouth with your man!


FIVE: At the very top of your man’s blood flow is the head of his penis. When your man is circumcised, a tiny little scar follows the vein bulge the last inch or so and ends there, also. In that spot there is a diamond shaped area called the frenulum. It’s very soft. You can please your mouth in this area through your lips and tongue. (And it's incidentally quite sensitive from his perspective, but your happy mouth doesn't need to know about that.)

Kiss it, flick it with the tip of your tongue, lavish it with your full tongue. Get the rest of your face involved. Rub it on your cheek. Try fluttering your eyelashes across it -- if you can get him to stay still enough ... OOOPPPSSSS!!!! I’m going off into that other topic! Sorry!

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Jenny Friend is in the business of helping people who want more loving and sexual lives. She is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist in private practice in Santa Ana, California. Her complete CD set entitled How to Please Your Mouth with Your Man ‒ A Woman’s “How-to” Guide is available directly with her. Visit her website at www.CenterForClarity.org for more information, or call 714-543-3900.