Nympho? Don't think so!!  

zoomzoomsluvtoy 52F
20 posts
7/16/2005 7:48 pm

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Nympho? Don't think so!!


Here is my question for today?

What do you consider a "normal" desire for sex?

I was asked if I could have the perfect sex life, what would it be?

I would prefer to have sex every night before I go to sleep, and be awaken each morning the same way. (Damn, I love wake up sex!)

I was told that I am a nympho. I am not thinking so.

Mind you, a man told me this! Ha, I say! Ha!

I thought that would make a man happy to have a chick like me.

redswallow777 49M
6811 posts
7/16/2005 10:14 pm

Normal desire for sex....different for each of us. Some can be happy with once a month....some once a week....and you would like it twice a day. The important thing is not how often you want it....but finding someone who has the same desire.


rm_WizardTim12 51M
44 posts
7/21/2005 2:53 am

It's a very good question, but the answer is going to vary quite a bit, as the previous gentleman pointed out. If you did a survey of incomes, you'd ask, say, 1000 people how much money they make, then figure an "average", and go with that number. But, virtually everyone in the survey will either be over the "average" or under it. Sexual desire, and frequency, will work the same way. Except that it's even trickier, because so many people, if asked, will say either what they think YOU want to hear, or what THEY think SHOULD be normal. And it gets worse, because we have a double standard for "men vs women" firmly in place. Men are encouraged to exaggerate their sex drive, and women are encouraged to downplay their sex drive.

For me personally, I enjoy having sex several times a day, and enjoy frequent masturbation (1 or more times a day) at those points where I'm not involved with anyone. As I grew up, I assumed this was average for a man, but the older I get, the more I'm wondering if I'm above average on that. I'm thinking that the men with comparatively low sex drives have been quiet on that, and so have the women with comparatively high sex drives. I think that's gradually changing as we get more open about sexual desires, but I think society in general is still stuck with some of the older prejudices, and thoughts. And, as the gentleman above also said, the trick is finding someone you're compatable with on sexual desire, just like compatibility on other issues. Well, that's my 2 cents worth, and possibly way more than you wanted to hear back from people . And yes, a lot of men would be very happy to have a women like yourself.


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