a simple date ....... What r u looking for?  

zephyrslair 50F
44 posts
4/18/2005 12:00 pm

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a simple date ....... What r u looking for?

What r u looking for?

people keep asking me this question and besides a smart allecky answer like

world peace
my car keys
my brain
inner peace........

i really dont know the answer to this

a date.....it aint rocket science
just a date.....u gotta start by meeting a person and seeing if u too have some chemistry.....

i know some of the folks here want anonymous sex....guess that is ok...u r all consenting adults...but that really is not what i am looking for

any thoughts on the

What r u looking for question?????

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
4/23/2005 9:52 pm

When I first got here I was looking for sex. Now I just blog. Few answered my emails anyway and the ones who did sent autoreplies...lol

CaptainLyon17 56M

4/25/2005 9:18 am

I believe it's all about having a sense of humor. Having the ability to laugh, especially at one's own faux pases, is more important than a new car or implants. Of course, some are merely looking for $ or Barbie.
And don't tell everything before you meet: Leave something interesting that you could share when you meet, when you look across the table and think that you picked a cool person out of thousands.
But at the end of the date, when it's time to decide on a follow-up or if it was a flop, bio-electro-chemistry has to perculate the pheromones.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
4/29/2005 10:32 pm

Hey zeph!

Just checking in to see if you have taken a break from your studies. Hope all is well and I'll see ya later.

zephyrslair 50F
15 posts
5/1/2005 9:05 pm

y thank u keith
i am swamped
but it is over tuesday
and i am blowing this town tuesday nt

where r u located anyway???

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
5/2/2005 5:53 am

I am just down the street. The one that leads to Charlotte. I am thinking about using it again...

Good luck with completing your projects.

zephyrslair 50F
15 posts
5/2/2005 8:24 am


u r thinking about using what again?? the street?

charlotte is very close.....maybe we can meet up for lunch sometime

just not this week...lol
chaos reigns here

have a good week

get away from your machine and find the sunshine

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
5/3/2005 4:38 pm

Yes, that's the street....I-85.

Will be sending good vibes your way. Hope they help get you calmed down again when the semester ends.

radiodjnNC 46M
2 posts
2/1/2006 12:59 am

I agree, it is just a date, or something casual (in many, but not all cases) which as you said, "aint rocket science". Most people in my travels and tribulations have not asked such a thing, but getting them to meet in a public place (I refer to first meetings as "meet-n-greets") just to see if there is any compatability (for lack of a better word to find out if you can co-exist with someone even as a friend) is such a headache...all for just meeting someone. Not getting married, not getting laid...just to initially meet someone. I dont exactly get it either.

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