Its just a phase  

zanzibarus 39M
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9/18/2005 1:33 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Its just a phase

Recently one of my ex-girlfriends broke up with her boyfriend. We are still fairly close and so we have the kind of relationship most couples would have, except without the sex.

I'll always be attracted to her, thats something i cant help. And now that she has broken up with her boyfriend, i cant help but wonder that something may happen again between us. Not relationship, just a night of drunken sex that may ruin things. I hope thats not the case. I would love to sleep with her again, however not if it ruins anything that we currently have. That would not be right.

I had/have another friend where that was the case, she sent me a message on my mobile to come over and have sex. She had a man, and after i extolled all my wisdom, asking whether she was sure this was what she wanted, she got angry and we havent spoken normally since. I suppose i should have just gone over and done it, but i couldn't, knowing that she would probably regret it for a long time afterwards.

I'm happy i made that decision, but i know it has cost me.

I just hope it doesnt happen in the current situation.

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