Men are worse than women....  

xxmeowbabyxx2 53F
88 posts
8/19/2006 7:10 am

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8/21/2006 8:03 pm

Men are worse than women....

Okay.....I've had it. Twice's happened twice in one week. You men complain about women that you're chatting with and working up to meeting or whatever, then they bail on you. Well guess what...We get that too. At least I am getting that. Start talking to some hot several emails, both of us saying how much we're looking forward to meeting. Set the date, then poof. Zero contact. Nothin..nada, zip, zilch. I usually have thick skin & couldn't care less but god damn it...It is really pissin me off!!! Not only does it make me feel bad, which it shouldn't cause I know I'm purrrfect...but it ruins it for all the sincere men out there. Even being up only they bailed. WTF?? So, if I wasn't a hard cynical bitch before.......well, I am now and it's only going to make it that much harder for me to consent to meeting. Fuck I'm pissed. Deep breaths....I almost feel like posting their screen names so they will be bombarded with hate mail and have to leave this site ..head hanging in shame...I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here being dogged. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....

2004AeroBabe 60F

8/19/2006 2:26 pm

Yep, I get it too, guys hot to meet, lots of email, telephone calls, then poof.........gone. Was it something I said, something I didn't say? I refuse to make it my fault. I know I am worth meeting and it's their loss if they don't follow through. I just HATE having my time wasted!!!!!!

rm_lovers_lover 42M
1 post
8/21/2006 8:12 am

I feel for you meowbaby, as the site seems riddled with fakes and forgetables. I agree with ursamajor, its a blessing in disguise: imagine meeting the guy that decided to stand YOU (solid point curiousnewb!) up!!! In any event, such a guy doesn't sound like your type, if I may so myself, and knowing you only slightly, or any a respectable, well-deserving woman, which in my humble opinion are all women, lest they demonstrate otherwise. The thing is that its also the nature of the beast. AdultFriendFinder allows the anonimity that so many people crave, need ~ the ability to be someone they are not, if only for a few minutes a day. But once the reality of having to be who they really are surfaces, the disconnect is forged and, as you ladies say, POOF! For what its worth, its happened to me and many of my guys friends on the site, so I don't think its a case of who's worse, women or men, because it goes beyond gender and embraces all of us, humanity in all its beautiful and often frustrating forms. Best of luck finding someone REAL and ready, and most importantly willing --> but you probably don't need to look as far as you think to avoid the frustration. Be well!

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8/21/2006 9:32 am

Sorry you have to go through that, it happens to couples too. Guys say they are going to meet but don't show. There are some real and great guys out there though. The nice part of our situation is if we plan to meet someone we have each other to enjoy, which is always wonderful. We choose the place to meet so we know it will at a minimum, nice meal. Over half of the guys we go to meet don't show, but the ones who have, made the no shows worth it. Don't give up, you look like you have lots to offer...

rm_plato995 42M

8/21/2006 4:14 pm

I hear you and feel your pain. You seem like a really cool lady and would like to continue chatting and who know's what else! ....baklava at my place?

Isabel72006 45F

8/21/2006 5:15 pm

I find it in extreme poor taste to ditch anyone. It has happened to me a few times. Hello my time is valuable too.... Keep your head up and know what you are worth. If they are stuck on stupid and without social graces then it is not your problem. Do not make it yours. You are a fantastic woman, a good friend, and a loving person. Their loss.....

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