New guy on the blog  

xtremebuilder 58M
19 posts
5/21/2006 8:08 am

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New guy on the blog

WOW!!!...People actually read these things! In that case, onward I march........

Why, in the world, does a responsible, decent (not stunning), intelligent single guy have problems meeting women? I think up all the excuses, I smoke, I drink, my skin isn't great....but, DAYUMM, is that it??? I'm relatively intelligent, make a decent living, love animals, have a boat.....geez, for that matter, I have a driver's license!!!!(getting rarer and rarer in my neck 'o the woods).

Tell me gals, why do women love the bad boys, the one's with the huge egos, the guys, that you damn well know, are gonna end up hurting you?

Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
5/21/2006 8:39 am

Welcome to blog land...

Sula xxx

come visit my blog

fun4sher 70F

5/21/2006 8:51 am

sense of danger, excitement, reverts to the cavegirl in us,
I prefere a bit of both, Macho and sensual. self confidence knows what he wants, and takes it. women usually live in a nice structured everyday humdrum and the 'bad boy' takes us out of that and puts excitement into the day. Would NOT want to live with one, just enjoy his presence and sex occasionally.

EroticaXTC 51F

5/21/2006 8:56 am

Here's the thing, sometimes we don't know they're bad boys until it's too late! Some bad boys are really good at playing good boys until they can't hide the badness any then they start feeling guilty, blah blah blah...and then the next thing we know, they're gone!
It sucks for everyone, lol

sexyariesgirl 59F

5/21/2006 10:22 am


Power To FOK

rm_wetfingeraz 55F
3012 posts
5/21/2006 8:15 pm

Maybe you need to move to Arizona...

poseygirl40 54F  
412 posts
5/31/2006 5:19 pm

let me add my two cents...i don't think it's so much that we look for the "bad boys"...they just seem to be the ones that are willing to give us a can be so judgemental....looks, age, body type, body size....that they typically don't give the "normal" woman a second view...the good guys seem to think they deserve the "beautiful" and "perfect body" women...they don't give the rest of us the opportunity to see who we are...

so.............not to be negative, it's not my nature...i think men need to be realistic (we are all older, looks fade, bodies aren't perfect) and not reach for the stars all the time...

women can be guilty of similar judgements....

why can't we all realize that each one of us is unique and allow ourselves the opportunity to "know" the person before judging....i'm just as guilty at times as the rest, so i'm not pretending to be holier than thou....

just wish the world was different...wish that we all could appreciate the goodness in others and accept the fact that we are all doesn't make anyone any better than the next...

sorry for rambling...


hugs, posey ~~ no expectations, but infinite possibilities

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