Sex Appeal  

xoxox4you 46F
33 posts
3/27/2005 10:31 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sex Appeal

I've read and responded to many blogs. I knew it was only a matter of time before I posted my own; The blunt and opinionated gal that I am! Guess it must be the red hair! I've had a few things to talk about so it's hard for me to put a title to this! 1st-about what we are all looking for on here: each of us is in a different walk of life, have different wants and needs, some are honest about them, some are not! 2nd-about older women and younger guys: I've dated 10 years older and 12 years younger. The younger was very intelligent and had much to talk about and kept me on my toes. The older, was very sophisticated, intelligent and extremely interesting to me. They both treated me like a lady and made me feel sexy and special. So, age isn't a major factor in compatibility! My opinion!

My next topic is exactly what has been going on in the past 25 days, since I joined AdultFriendFinder. Something has happened to me! When I am in public I feel I am in a different light than I've ever been. I feel men staring at me, coming up to me out of the blue and asking me out. I have women asking to take me home! Somehow my sex appeal has been altered. I know it has something to do with being on the site. But, I'm not sure what exactly has changed! Any ideas?


ExcitedSenses 40M

3/27/2005 10:49 pm

well it's not because of the site. I have been on here 6 years and nothing great has happened to me. I do have more knowledge and experience though for when I do meet someone. That said I have gotten some once in the last 18 months, and AdultFriendFinder is not helping. Maybe it's where I live, I don't know. Perhaps you have a new sexual confidence and you look at men around you more or leave subtle hints. Men pickup on that and are more likely to talk to you than some woman who isn't confident or doesn't seem interested. Hopefully you can capitalize on this. Nice blog, and nice pic too


avlman2 52M
1 post
3/28/2005 8:35 am

Its because you are a very sexy lady.You are probably showing more confidence since you have joined the site.That is a ture on to alot of people man or woman.thats my opinion,


wntass
1 post
3/28/2005 11:54 am

SEEMS LIKE MOST PEOPLE ON THIS SITE ARE MORE BLOW THAN GO! WOMEN WILL NOT EVER HAVE A DIFFICULT TIME. THEY HAVE THE SUPPLY AND ARE ALWAYS IN DEMAND. SEEMS IN MANY WAYS THIS AND OTHER LIKE SITES ARE CONFINDENCE BUILDING AREAS. BUT JUST MY OPINION. JUST WISH THAT WHEN SOMEONE SAYS THE ARE LOOKING AND AFTER ENDLESS E-MAILS THEY PULL OUT OF A FACE-TO-FACE MEETING EVEN IN A SAFE PUBLIC PLACE. HOW AND MORE IMPORTANTLY WHEN ARE YOU EVER GOING TO GET TOGETHER IF YOU ALWAYS PULL BACK FROM THE BRINK????


VERYNTRESTED 55M
1 post
3/28/2005 3:40 pm

I believe it is because you are more aware of your sexuality and the conditions and desires of others around you. The conditions are the same, you are just noticing more. I suspect that with the many complements on your beauty and sexuality that you have received through AdultFriendFinder that you are just more aware now.

I think you should stick with the older guys!!!!!! But I am biased!


MBarrett1983 34M

3/28/2005 3:51 pm

I think it's the support and intrest you recieve here that is affecting your personal preception of yourself. You may be feeling more confident for many men/women wish to know you on here. So, you walk a little straighter and head held a little higher. Then outside of AdultFriendFinder ppl are responding to your confidence and good looks. You came to this site cause you know exactly what you want and you're going to get it. In turn you're applying the same to your daily life. I've been feeling a change as well with myself. I too have noticed the difference. Before when I saw ppl at the bars I used to think, "Naw, I don't have a chance". But now it's different.


LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
3/28/2005 5:51 pm

I think it is a confidence builder, we all love having people pay attention to us in person or even over the internet. Of course you want to be careful of how much attention you ask for lol.

As far as older women and younger men go and vise versa, it is similar to the whole "it's not about the size but how you use it" topics. Many men do not know what to expect or how to act. They apparently just do not put in the proper effort and thinking involved. Then again that is one of societies greatest issues, a overall lack of deep thinking.

I am glad you have started a blog, you are a very smart and sexy woman. Remember that you should click on your blog settings and fill out a description and blog title. A woman such as yourself deserves a more unique title


xoxox4you 46F

3/28/2005 8:23 pm

Just so you all know: it's now 11:15pm, I must get up for work at 4:30am.(A single girl must work for the fear of boredom, if not poverty!) Besides, I have patients that need a smiling face! But, I just had to post a thank you and a few opinions to your comments.

It seems there's a majority in the vote regarding confidence in your comments. I do believe I am more confident. I have you all to thank! I will always thank you for your compliments. And, I am much more aware of my sexuality than I've ever been in my whole life. I have already, in the 26 days of being on the site, learned much about myself! Again, I have you all to thank! That, was exactly what I am here for! I am exploring myself! And, am finding the journey wonderful!

I will continue writing, answering your emails and see where my glorious journey leads me!

xoxox


Tombraider23 50M
50 posts
3/29/2005 8:50 am

I think most of the views or opinions that you have recieved in response to your blog are right on target. You are a lovely and very sexy woman and maybe because of the emails that you have received from men and women are giving you a self awareness that you may have never noticed. When you feel others see you as an interesting, lovley, intelligent and sexy person you see yourself that way and you display that confident in the way you move, talk and respond to people. You are more confident and confidence always brings sexual appeal to the forefront. Hope this site gives you all the confidence you want, but you certainly don't need it.


rm_bandit355 38M
1 post
3/30/2005 2:11 pm

I just want to thank you for being the confident, sexy woman that you are. It's an incredible turn on to see a woman who not only loves and appreicates, but flaunts and teases with her body, and you do these things very well. You give me a rush of excitement and passion that's out of my control, and I like it. Just wanted to let you know that you're appreciated.


sportyfun56 107M

4/5/2005 1:42 pm

Hun... it may be that you have an visible attitude change about yourself. And that can be sexy if it is right. Hence, more people wanting to 'experience' you. Take care and be careful, but enjoy.

good luck.


luvthatsixty9 53M
1 post
4/7/2005 4:09 pm

Well going on these websites as a beautiful young woman puts you there and you get a lot of responses. I find your response pretty rational; you just have a new found sense of confidence that radiates wherever you go. Just be careful and honest with whomevever you deal with.


openmindedscfan 52M

4/8/2005 6:33 pm

I agree, age is not the most importaant thing for compatability! I think that you are a very sexy and smart, professional and sophisticated lady. But that is only from what I have read. I would love to get to know you better.

Also, my vote is that you have a new found confidence and a new found discovery of your sexuality or you have expanded a part of your sensuality since joining the site.

Best Wishes on your Journey!


rm_sfunnybunny 64M
1 post
4/12/2005 4:13 pm

It's all in your mind, your sexuality I mean. Your mind controls you sexual actions and appearance. You are probably anticipating events related to joining Hot Match and maye it's radiating from you in all directions. A sexy mind is a terrible thing to waste.

Until we mind meld! Thats Vulcan I think...


rm_bikerguy9 58M

4/14/2005 1:17 pm

You are beautiful. The positive outlook is a REAL turnon. People like to be around positive people. You've got that AND the confidence! Keep it up! It sure works for me!


rm_unlistedone 67M
2718 posts
4/28/2005 6:18 am

I know what you mean... I've felt that way also. I think it's not only the confidence you outwardly show, but also the aura that you give off. Other's feel it.


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