A Question: Why Fuck?  

wraecca 41M
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2/27/2005 8:47 pm

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A Question: Why Fuck?

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3 posts
2/28/2005 4:03 pm

I love to be with women. Period. There is no trouble, pain, confusion, fuss, however you want to put it? for me. I love the process of meeting and making new friends and all the pleasure you can derive from these relationships. If something doesn't work out, learn something from the experience and move on. Thats life. We are built to be social creatures, not solitary. My advice is to keep your palm for a backup and get outta the house more often.

richardlv2 83M
25 posts
2/28/2005 5:49 pm

great art!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2 posts
2/28/2005 6:05 pm

Trying to dissect our continuation of the species, multi-million year drive to have sex as a species might yield isn't going to yield much ... besides a whole lot of MENTAL masturbation. It's who we are as a species ... just like we have a need to be adequately social, like we have a need to see daylight, etc. Masturbation can be great and yield wonderful intense orgasms ... but who pretends that sex is just about penis stimulation and orgasm? It's obviously not.

As far as the women you've played with recently ... I understand your desire to not hurt ... but let's get real. These are adult women and you've not agreed to any long term relationship before playing with them, I imagine. Taking responsibility for them and what you THINK they MIGHT be wanting and thinking is silly and taking too much responsibility for another adult. Giving someone an orgasm is hardly harm.

As far as the STD thing ... condoms are nearly perfect when top brands are used and used correctly. The national effectiveness percentage factors in all the people who somehow don't know how to use one correctly ... or use the cheap brands (testing results for all the brands are widely available). I've heard before that condoms break ... well I'm a larger than average guy who uses standard size condoms and havent had one break ever.

Best of luck with everything.

wraecca 41M
358 posts
3/1/2005 5:07 pm

I was thinking this question would get responses. Interesting that it is all from the gentlemen so far.

And thank you guys for that -- and for your respectful and frank tone.

Any comments from the ladies?

patsam69 52M/52F

3/25/2005 7:32 pm

i think it is wonderful that you worry about hurting these women, even though you know the relationship is casual. Let's faceit...no one wants to feel used...and although many women on this site want casual sex..some may think they want it, but find it is more difficult than they anticipated. So, as a woman, I thank you for not being a wham bam kind of guy.

As for fucking....I like it. Can live without it for long periods though. Kissing, hugging, talking, laughing, touching can be more satisfying. as I write this to u..i realize I may be fibbing, cause there are times when I love my husband to drive into me, push his cock in so hard until I cannot take it any longer. But thats the brain foe you..wants one thing one minute, something else the next.

back to the casual thing....It was not easy for me at first. The fact that my husband wanted to see me with a stranger blew my mind. I was deeply hurt. But over time I learned to separate love and sex...which you men have genetically built into you. I beleive I have done it after much soul searching. now our sex life is better than ever. After being with my husband and another man...my husband and I can't get enough of each other..It is Marvelous!!!

Good luck to you with the bi curious thing...what's the worst that could happen? You don't like it and never do it again..or you do and add it to your sexual menu. Be safe and enjoy! Suzanne

Lookup247 60M

2/24/2009 11:40 am

Looking for the excitement that new places, new situations and meeting new people give. Sometimes sex, often not, but always new experiences that add to my life either positive of negative,

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