So I've been a member .............  

woman06811 60F
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3/9/2006 4:43 pm

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11/22/2006 7:51 pm

So I've been a member .............

...... off and on for 4 years and have met many people in person. Nothing, however, prepares you for the shear volume of people who are alike.

Married men

They don't get enough from their wives,
They have a high sex drive,
They want to be kinky but wifey doesn't share his proclivities,
They want someone new,
They want someone different,

Isn't that basically what everyone who is on here wants? To get more, different, new, perhaps forbidden pussy, cock, ass (all); in naughty, nasty, dirty ways, that will feed their high sex drive. Married men, just don't want wifey to know.

Many married men are willing to have an on going affair. This is in order to keep it somewhat safe. And because regular sex is really all they want. (My observation, not a scientifically proven fact)

Now single men
.... who are on this site, (at least most of the single men that have contacted me) just want a fuck buddy. NSA. Repeat performances are preferred but a wham bam thank you ma'am is fine. They don't want relationships. They don't want to spend time with you. They just want the downstroke rhythm in a mouth, an ass, a pussy, between tits, in a nice girl, in a naughty girl, in a model type whose picture they want to tack next to the corresponding notch on the bed post, in a fat girl who gives the best head, gets in the most acrobatic positions but whom they never would be seen with in public.

Neither married nor single men want any feelings involved.

The goal of being on AdultFriendFinder is to meet people. Live chat, chatrooms, webcams, phone calls and meeting in public places serve two purposes: to get your rocks off or to weed out the undesireables.

...these were just some observations. Don't go off saying I'm bitter or unhappy or hard up, or a cold bitch. One entry, one day, one train of thought. Just give me a minute ....

In my next entry I'll discuss the benefits of married men vs single men. Or is that single vs married?

Coming up:

My situation...
What I'm looking for...
Some experiences...
Couples sex survey...

elysianpleasure 48M

3/10/2006 3:30 am

Welcome... sounds like this should be an interesting blog. Sometimes I honestly don't know what I am looking for... but maybe you have insight into how this all evolves. I think your summary of the married guy is pretty accurate, being one. But I am looking for a connection and with a connection comes some level of feelings. I miss feelings as much as I miss sex. If feelings means drama... well... yeah... I could do without that. Drop by and say hi sometime... Elysian

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