mothers day  

willow1937 58F
96 posts
5/14/2006 1:52 pm
mothers day

hi just like to share my mothers day with you all
for the past 18 months i have nursed my mother with terminal cancer it was the hardest time off my life , 8 weeks ago i lost my mum , to this horrible thing they call cancer , so today was my worst I've coped with so fare in my life ,
so i guess my advice to you all is that with life's ups n downs with families and friends , remember we only have one go at it life , it's no trial run or lets go back and try that again, we are human we fuck up , but learn from this and move on . We are only passing through this life into owe next and it will go so fast , so i guess take time out off your life to reflect on things that have made us who we are today , we all have options, we are in control , we make choice we life with every day , so i guess take control and move forward be best way we can

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
5/14/2006 4:46 pm

I am sorry for your loss and am grateful to still have my mom.

Welcome to the site.

Purry {=}


imsohorny19822 36F
1728 posts
5/14/2006 4:51 pm

So sorry to hear that you lost your mum willow. It must have been a very hard thing to deal with.

I agree with what you are saying. Life is far to short, i understand that now that i am older. When i was a kid, everything seemed to far away and that you would never get there, now, you just want to slow everything down and have more time.

Live every day like its your last........

1_to_play_with 44M

5/14/2006 5:59 pm

Life is indeed too short, something i am realising also. People come and go but family and TRUE friends are for life, if you happen to be so lucky. *hugs* I will be in touch soon to help cheer you up

willow1937 58F

5/14/2006 8:03 pm

thanks so much dear friends for your words and thoughts , and putting a smile on my face also , and your warm welcome also to this site

imsohorny19822 36F
1728 posts
5/14/2006 9:32 pm

You are more than welcome Willow

1_to_play_with > i really have to agree with you there. Family and True Friends are for life and they are the most valuable possession you will ever have, so enjoy them while you can and make the most of every day!


rm_Harved9 68M

5/15/2006 9:34 am

i spend my Mother's day with my mother-in-law

she is dying of cancer also

my wife is in NY tieing up lose ends so she can come back for the end

in some ways it has been cathartic for me, my own mother died of cancer many years ago and i was not there at the end, its like having a second chance

i feel for your loss


willow1937 58F

5/15/2006 11:43 pm

Hi Harve
im sorry to here that u are going through this all over again i feel for your loss , its a bloody hard thing to cope with once, without going through it again
im so happy u have a positive outlook on the fact that u get a second chance with your mother in law to spend time with , and do the things u never had a chance to do with your mum , keep your chin and stay strong

ineedlovefromyou 55M
27 posts
6/3/2006 7:25 am

im sory for your loss willow i have seen how deverstating this can be on someone as most of my friends have lost there perants and most to cancer. a friend of mines best coment is enjoy each day as a gift , we are here for a good time, becouse we certanlly not here for a long time.


rm_stormman4000 47M

1/11/2007 4:13 pm

Sorry about ya mum i lost mine 6 years ago now and it hurt alot , take care willow xxx

willow1937 58F

1/11/2007 8:19 pm

thanks storm yes its hard and this Xmas being the first without her and was bloody awful let me tell u , but each day i guess the pain eases a little but the hole will never fill

rm_sanjee203 49M
1 post
2/25/2007 4:09 am

Hi Willow
Please accept my deepest sympathies.I saw this only yesterday.Coming from a different culture I see Mother a little different
Mother is some one who loves us so much some times we cannot fathom it.
Mother is the one who makes us realise how good we are
Her happiness is in our laughter
Her sorrow is in our tears She is some one we can live without
Every great man let it be Einstein, Socrates Shakespere were led to this world as little kids by mother.
All the love in this world comes from mothers milk
Any body can deny God but no body can deny that he was born off a woman.
Mother is the greatest person on earth

Having treated cancer patients for five years I trualy understand your sorrow.
This is the reality. At the end every thing is sadness.
Take care get your self checked up as well as some times it can run in the family.

willow1937 58F

2/25/2007 10:41 am

thanks sanjee for your comments yesterday was a year to the date on the 25th off mums passing from this life into her next , it brings back so many good times the we shared in life and memory's that will never leave me , the pain is still there, but Every day i thank god for taking her as she isn't suffering anymore
God bless you mum and be in peace xoxo

rm_sassy2see 60F

9/6/2007 9:06 pm

willow im so sorry to hear of your loss....

i am a nurse and have held the hand of many mums...
our mums are so special to us.

hugs willow

willow1937 58F

9/7/2007 1:31 am

never a true word spoken sassy mums are so special to us all thanks for your kind words
it takes a special person to do your job sassy and u also sanjee
you should be both so proud off doing this
i hope this email gives u both such strength and courage to keep going keep smiling
and thank u both again

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