want to be sluty  

8 posts
9/29/2005 8:15 pm

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want to be sluty

how do you have safe oral? I mean I know it is safer than fucking w/o a condom, but do you guys just hope the other person is clean and take your chances? I'm leery but I want to be sluty.
any advice or info.?

dallaswill101 66M
84 posts
9/29/2005 11:43 pm

Communication, honesty, and know your partner. Communicate your concerns and ask questions of your partners. Do your best to determine they are being honest with you. And know the people you are dealing with and find out with whom they have been having sex. Then hope for the best.

Examples: I had a long series of emails thru AdultFriendFinder with a woman who really wanted a long term sex buddy. She had to get comfortable with me via emails and phone calls. And even though my profile specifically says no diseases need apply I asked her about STD's. She said no until about the 10th phone call and right before she was inviting me over for sex she revealed she had herpes. But she knew when she was having an outbreak of it and we would use a condom then. Otherwise we would not need one because she did not like the way they felt. I quickly stopped that meeting as anyone who has done an ounce of research can tell you, people who have herpes never know if they are infectious or not. They do not need to have an outbreak to infect you. Some people carry the herpes and never infect anyone while others are always capable of spreading herpes. If we had hooked up the 2nd or 3rd time we had visited, I might now be infected.

Other example is I have met on AdultFriendFinder one of the most amazing women ever. She is like my female clone and the sex is beyond description. The first time we got together we went for about 2 hours. 4 hours straight with one intermission is our personal best so far. When I asked if she would like a photo of us together she said here's my digital camera, next time bring your video camera. And her hygene is impecable. So when she mentioned mouth sores I did not think anything of it. Until I had the sores. My tongue went numb on top, sore on the bottom, blisters inside the cheeks, inside of my lips had a rash and lost sensation. I was really pissed. But I had followed all my cautionary steps and still this happened. It looks like it may have been a none-std type virus, but we are still checking.

So, even with all the safeguards in place, one can still become a victim. Try to be slutty with a small circle of friends. If necessary, ask for current blood tests for STD's. They should be happy to comply since it shows you are protecting yourself and others.

I wish you good luck and let me know if you are ever in Dallas. I love all types of oral. Mostly giving, unless you are exceptional at giving as well.

sodacanstar 36M

9/30/2005 4:16 am

Dallas is correct in his statement mind you it is more difficult for f/f to pass STD's it is always of game of truth and dare mind you in recent studies std's are usually spread from m/f oral from deep throating the male and having your glands in the back of your throat exposed to the type of virus. I believe dallas is on th right track with stating to be with a circle of friends to have fun with. Good luck and good cum shoots!

rm_4nik8_4u 62M
2501 posts
9/30/2005 4:30 am

TAKE NO CHANCES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


funtobewithmetoo 60M
14 posts
9/30/2005 2:36 pm

Be very cautious, but ask questions, communicate, ask about past experiences, watch for inconsistancies in answers, ask about test results; honesty is the key. Until you are confident with your partner, limit your activities and play it safe.
I am free of disease and drugs; so if interested stay in touch.

1 post
10/1/2005 9:59 am

Dallas, Soda, 4nik8 and fun, Thank you for your advice.
There are alot of pushy people claiming they are "For Real" and imply that I may not be because I'm taking my time. That's cool. When someone says they are for real I become suspicious that they are hiding something and get turned off. You are right, lots of communication is key. And hot.

7 posts
12/2/2005 9:59 am

Looking to have fun because SF is annoying me for the moment... Available for some days until 9th of December... Love each experience and especially with lovely women!

rm_dayliteful2 57M

12/3/2005 11:43 am

...dental dams!!!

kekamakani 51M

12/31/2005 1:53 am

communication is key, and Dallas hit this one on the button. the inconsistencies of truth and honesty have been unbelievable even from women I've almost met from the site. Safe sex is also using condoms but nevertheless understanding STDs and how they spread through oral and which ones lie in wait undetected, yet maintain the ability to spread w/o notice. Disease-Free is easily proven with a simple test - request it from someone you are not sure is being truthful. It could save your life.

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