Need some courtesy toward other members.  

rm_willie8one2 71M
39 posts
7/2/2005 5:58 am

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Need some courtesy toward other members.

Women will contact you but then you reply and never hear from her again. At least have the courtesy to say “Not interested”, this is a two way street as I expect the guys to do the same for a women that emails them. Some women never acknowledge receiving any email or other contact from you. Is this because they get so many contacts due to the disproportionate ratio of men to women? If you are not interested in someone that emails you shouldn’t you at least use the Quick Reply to let them know? Maybe you have a filter set to only allow contacts that match your Cupid setting then I understand the no response but maybe AdultFriendFinder should have the software set to at least let the sender know this as they do for people that have their email set to only allow contacts from people that match their Cupid settings.

kissablemeinmn 49F

7/2/2005 8:06 am

Thank you for this post. I am very bad about responding. I have every intention of doing it but get sidetracked and just never get around to it.

I will try harder. Thank you again.


rm_txrose4uNTX 58F
3289 posts
7/2/2005 9:41 am

If you only saw our email boxes!! I showed one male AdultFriendFinder member my email box and he was astounded. As a standard member I was soooooo very limited on the number of responses that I was allowed. As a Gold Member, I am trying to catch up on my email responses....but, sometimes there just doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day and seems quite a daunting task.

On the flip side, I would like to ask that people not send 5-10 emails in a matter of just a couple of days... can you imagine how that escalates the number of emails in our boxes needlessly????? Thanks, in advance, for your understanding!!!

Hornball4U2005 33F

8/9/2005 9:14 pm

I replied right away babe.... aren't you glad I did?

rm_willie8one2 71M
573 posts
8/10/2005 10:24 am

Hornball you are so fast I cannot believe it, nice body also. We need to talk (Ha-Ha) again, soon, as I have a lot I want to say or is that show you.

uhhh20 33F
21 posts
8/13/2005 11:39 pm

*grin* I reply to e-mails, but mostly it is an extended screening session. Other than that, I've no photos posted so I am betting I get far fewer responses! (side note: hope you don't mind me checking out your blog!)

rm_willie8one2 71M
573 posts
8/14/2005 6:06 am

No problem with you "checking out my blog" as that’s why its here. I do know from experience that no photo meant no contacts for me. I then decided to go all the way so to speak and a full body shot so women will know what I really look like. So many just post a photo of their private parts so no one will be able to tell who they are and maybe as some women I have met just get a thrill from have their pussy looked at, I know I enjoy it, but would like to see the whole person. Does not have to be as bold as I went with a full nude photo. I think men like to show photos of their erect penis thinking it will attract women and in many cases it does as I have been asked to send photo like this from some that read my profile. But many do not want just a hard dick shot as many have also asked me for a face close-up photo. I just looked at your blog again and saw that the network invitation had not been received by you so I sent another.

rm_willie8one2 71M
573 posts
8/19/2005 8:17 pm

Quite and education I got looking as you suggested girltech47 at rdy2try4's blog. I never realized there were so many crude men or from what I saw boys out there as someone who would write some of the things on her blog had not made it to manhood yet no mater what their age. I have had so few emails that I never realized until I started this blog what women have to go through here. I was glad to see that there are still some gentlemen that did post with some respect to her. As many have said on her blog all you have to do is read her profile as she tells it like it is and what she wants and doesn’t want.

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