what is this, seventh grade??  

wickedeasy 68F  
17275 posts
5/18/2006 6:23 am
what is this, seventh grade??

The subject of cliques has come up in blogland over the past couple of days. That, and people just being mean or unkind on someone's blog.

When i was in 7th grade, i was dating a guy on the basketball team - an unlikely pairing: the intellectual nerd girl, the hunky athlete. There was a cheerleader, named Wendy, who wanted this guy for herself. Everyday, she and a couple of her galpals would harass me in the corridors, knock the books out of my hand, kick my ankles so my stockings ran, giggle and whisper whenever i came within 50 feet of them...

At the time, i took it very personally and was hurt to my core - i just could not figure out what the hell i had done to warrant such behavior.

Fact is, i hadn't done anything wrong or provocative - i was just in her way and she was just a bitch. that was 7th grade. i didn't like 7th grade then, and i certainly don't want to spend my time there now.

So, listen up - have something of interest to add? tell me.

Want to open another aspect of a discussion? awesome.

Want to make me feel small so you can feel important? banned.

i am not given to suffer fools gladly - it's just not in me anymore - not enough time or energy to spend it so unwisely.

For all of you who have visited my blog, and made comments, who raised the bar on the discussion, made me think, laugh, cry - my thanks.

for the rest, pffffffffffft

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/18/2006 6:31 am

*calmly sits in the shadows, sharpening his Bowie knife to an edge that would cut God*


You need me....you call me...a friend returns a friend's favor...

NG61....waiting in the shadows....

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 8:52 am:
this i know

and count on

my thanks NG - bows deeply

evilgothgirl 53F

5/18/2006 7:51 am

What a great attitude...

Congratulations on that. I hope more people take you words to heart and think before they speak.

Blessed Be

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 8:53 am:
thanks for visiting - and i just wish it still didn't sting

PassionKisses4Me 45F

5/18/2006 8:18 am

I agree there is no need in people being nasty, rude and mean to others

Good post sweetie



wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 8:54 am:
thanks - appreciate it

Spiritswilling 64M

5/18/2006 9:11 am

I had similar experiences in High School, I was the guy everyone picked on, or made fun of. Not real good for building up ones self esteem in those years of life. Finally got wise and said enough of this bullshit and started standing up for myself. Take me as I am or don't take me at all.

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 9:27 am:
right on - does an angela davis fist to the air

rm_gerson42 53M
2419 posts
5/18/2006 9:56 am

I just call it what it is. People pack up when they can't go it alone. Although I see a difference between participating with the familiar and inclusion in a group bent on negativism. The latter is a poor excuse to make oneself feel better and is like filling a bucket sieve with water.

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 3:33 pm:
i posted a reply and AdultFriendFinder in its infinite wisdom gobbled it up

so, the more PG and PC version follows:

it isn't about negativity per se. i can deal with the eeyores of the world. it's the spitefullness and cruelty that frosts my butt

(am so hoping my prior post never surfaces - goes off whistling innocently)

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 4:37 pm:
garners all her nerve and asks - is that really a pic of you?
because if it is - one helluva fine ass

and it isn't just about being negative - i can deal with the eeyore's of the world - it's being mean spirited that truly makes me want to spit

rm_gerson42 53M
2419 posts
5/18/2006 4:26 pm

wickedeasy replies on 5/18/2006 3:33 pm:
it isn't about negativity per se. i can deal with the eeyores of the world. it's the spitefullness and cruelty that frosts my butt.

Yes, yes.... that is good!

wickedeasy replies on 5/19/2006 9:25 am:
please ignore the man behind the curtain

curse AdultFriendFinder for posting my second one - sorry

MaggiesWishes 61F

5/18/2006 4:54 pm

hehhee.... loves it when you "kick ass" and then take names

warm huggies 2ya lady

wickedeasy replies on 5/19/2006 9:24 am:
winks at Maggie -

oldude1946 72M

5/18/2006 5:19 pm

Fuck'em if they can't take a joke

wickedeasy replies on 5/19/2006 9:26 am:
grins at olddude -

do i have to fuck'em - couldn't i jsut beat the hell out of them instead?

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
5/18/2006 6:59 pm

Ok I'll quit leaving those silly little bad things on here. Yep you just wait......made you laugh ha ha. I understand what you are talking about. SOME people JUST DO NOT GROW UP.That is why we call them small minded people.

Hugs and love

NGs_lady/ Lady Stee

wickedeasy replies on 5/19/2006 9:28 am:
can think of a few other names too

hugs the Lady Stee

oldude1946 72M

5/19/2006 2:38 pm

Hell yes, just beat the hell out of them

wickedeasy replies on 5/19/2006 7:06 pm:
damn skippy

warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
5/20/2006 6:04 am

There's no more call for unpleasantness online than there is in the rest of our lives. We shouldn't stand for it. Fortunately most bloggers are really nice to know and we don't want a few bad apples to spoil the barrel.

warm xx

wickedeasy replies on 5/20/2006 7:16 am:
i agree - i left a chat room for this same reason until friends told me to get my arse back in there - why let anyone else dictate my actions.

thanks and warmandsexy hugs to you

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