wickedeasy 68F  
17155 posts
6/18/2006 10:28 am

i am ending my two weeks of vacation. in that time i saw my Sir exactly 7.25 hours. out of 360 potential hours which is exactly 2.09% of the entire time

now, i know manure occureth and we both have demands on our time but i had planned these two weeks only after checking with him and his calendar to give us some much needed time together.

for some reason, doing the math made me so pissed off i can barely see.

bottom line: i'm seeing red

ever feel like you're low man on the totem pole?
what did you do about it?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

warmandsexy52 65M
13164 posts
6/18/2006 12:13 pm

How precious is the 2.09%? If it was something truly wonderful then it may have been worthwhile.

I have known fellow free flyers travel to the ends of the earth for a few hours in a distant sky, and have done the same myself.

Had Sir only been able to give 7.25 hours that's one thing, but had he promised more that's quite another. You are worth a greater commitment.

warm xx

wickedeasy replies on 6/18/2006 4:40 pm:
the 2.09% was about.7% brilliant

and i hear what you are saying

am just wondering if he hears what i am saying

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/18/2006 4:19 pm


I'm so sorry...wish there was something we could do or say...

NG61...slipping back into the darkness....

wickedeasy replies on 6/18/2006 4:38 pm:
you listened, you heard

you supported

smiles at her friend

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/18/2006 5:19 pm

I'm sorry sweetie! It is really a shame that he missed out on all that time he could have had with you. If he really just didn't place you in a position of value....then I'd move are worth more than that!

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
6/18/2006 5:24 pm

You know what I say. Follow your hart, but listen to your mind.
Call if you need to I will be here.

Hugs and love

NGs_lady / Lady Stee

rm_kat_in_vinyl 45F

6/18/2006 8:52 pm

i had to chuckle a little at the fact that you actually did the math to figure out how much time there was and how much was spent with Him....but i do understand your frustration.....i won't be one of those Ppeople who say "it's quality, not quantity" as when the quantity is small the quality can't be that heart goes out to you and know that i know where you are coming to you sister...

MamChelle 49F
1443 posts
6/18/2006 11:31 pm

wicked one, i feel for you sis...i am here should my shoulder be a choice...*hugs* c

lacenleather2 106F
159 posts
6/19/2006 5:43 am

It seems to me , that the bottom rung was always were I've been hung ...and having decided that I dont like it there has left me alone .Perhaps it is a choice of men or an enabling personality , I still struggle with .But now for me , if I dont sit near the top of the ladder, I dont sit on it at all .
You are worthy of so much and much more than 2.09%We all have to decide who , where , when ....and why.I hope that you find inner peace , and that your man puts you at the top where you belong wicked.

MaggiesWishes 61F

6/19/2006 11:02 am

HUmmmmm.... that bites!
Just saying... you are worth more. No matter the time, quality or quanity ... some situations, just bite!

I'm here, here.
warm huggies 2ya sis

wickedeasy 68F  
31113 posts
6/19/2006 1:54 pm

thanks everyone - but no one ('cept lacen) answered the question -

if you were low man, what did you do about it - i need
suggestions ladies

and maybe it's just me being pissy


You cannot conceive the many without the one.

rm_PeanutJackie 37F
1286 posts
6/19/2006 4:07 pm

yep, i've been there, done that. i talked to Him about how i felt and that helped quite a lot. Wish i had more suggestions

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."

rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
6/19/2006 11:24 pm

Actually,,, we, you are lucky you were able to see Him... think of it that way sweetness... i know distance can be a hard thing,, then they throw into the loop, work, family and then... the dreaded CLOCK.. Time sucks...

Hugsssss to you,, and i do hope you don't have to leave... i surely would miss you!!


Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

MaggiesWishes 61F

6/20/2006 4:34 pm

Feeling down on the totem pole is sometimes a position of choice. If your relationship isn't equal ... ie. being the other woman, or being second to a demaning job ... you take what you are given and just accept it.

If you are in the position to talk and compromise for more, then by all means, do so.

Not everyone can walk in your shoes, Sis.
Sometimes you just have to kick them off, and go barefootin' to be at ease with the journey.

Not sure if this is what you wanted to hear, but you know me ... I only make suggestions.

warm huggies 2ya

wickedeasy replies on 6/21/2006 5:39 pm:
bops to "barefootin"

love ya maggie - you cut right through the BS

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