Moment of Decision  

whmle012 55M
10 posts
9/7/2006 5:43 pm

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11/27/2007 5:08 pm

Moment of Decision

Okay. You just got an email from someone. You read it and look at the picture. What next? In the 30 seconds it took you to read the note, what makes you decide weather or not to respond? The contents of the note? The picture? Can you be sure you are not passing up a great person to know?
Any thought on this?

Hydragenias 57F

9/9/2006 8:05 am

It's usually a combination of many things. The first thing I look at is distance, if it's even feasible that we would meet. The next thing I do is try to get a grasp on the person's personality by reading the profile.

The contents of the e-mail is important also. If the guy just says something stupid like "wanna fuck" then, well, FORGET IT, he's NOT getting a response from me.

dawnadoll 49F  
445 posts
8/26/2007 1:41 am

hi, I after reading what they wrote go and look at the profile,this way I know if they are real are trying to take me for a ride. If I can not read profile I delete it.



rm_Hazzenn 58F

11/9/2007 8:14 pm

Definately the contents of the e-mail is what grabs my attention. If it interests me enough...I then will check out the profile to see if there is anything further to catch my interest. If so...then a response is what they'll get! Oh...and the pic? Doesn't mean a thing to me! How do you know if the pic is even of the person that is e-mailing you? And besides...looks are great...but they aren't everything! 'wink

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