Help Me Understand This  

whmle012 55M
10 posts
8/24/2006 11:01 am

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11/27/2007 5:08 pm

Help Me Understand This

Help me understand. We are all adults here, right? Why is it that people ask you to email them or chat with them, and they never reply back? Are they afraid I would be mad because someone tells me "no thanks, not interested"? I have always thought it was common courtesy to reply to an email asking "do you want to chat back and forth". It only takes a moment of your time to reply. Is it asking too much for common courtesy?

wickedeasy 68F  
30944 posts
8/24/2006 12:03 pm


welcome to blogland

it isn't too much to ask, but often a person won't reply - don't take it personally - the women here are inundated - even if their profile says no, no, no hookups

write some more - let people get to know you


You cannot conceive the many without the one.

TickleMeBBW 37F

8/24/2006 1:33 pm

I agree with wicked, don't take it personally.

Too many emails to reply too.

lucylu691 34F

8/24/2006 1:45 pm

I agree I personally just say no thank you but i appreciate the offer thats all you really need to polite and not rude!!!

rm_pussnballs4u 62M/55F
326 posts
8/24/2006 2:28 pm

Welcome to Blogland. Hope you have fun here. Hope to see you around sometime.


I personally have had much more success right here in the blogs (under my male profile before starting this one with Puss) than I ever had out there in the email world. If you are honest and post often, people will get to know you and things will happen in their own time. But you got to remember, you have to write letters to get letters and you have to visit blogs to get visited. Sorry, but thats just the way it works. Also, post a pic of some kind or another. There is about a zero chance of a response from a woman to a man with no profile pic. It don't have to show your face, or be 'dick pic' (which they kind of scorn anyway). Hell look at our pic, guy. It's not very revealing at all, given the nature of the site. But as soon as it went up, I started to get farther along in the process here. Just something about a pic, no matter how concealing it is, that gives you that aire of being reall, human.

whmle012 55M

8/24/2006 5:09 pm

Thanks wickedeasy for the comments. I will keep responding hoping to get return mail.

whmle012 55M

8/24/2006 5:13 pm

Thanks TickleMeBBW, lucylu691 and pussnballs4u for your comments and suggestions. I will trudge on and keep writing. I will check out your blogs and get in touch with you'all.

dawnadoll 49F  
445 posts
8/26/2007 1:45 am

I agree. The only way I do not reply is if the profile has the opposite from what was said to me. In my profile I am direct with what I am looking for.But on the other hand one man I did email and told him was not interested, and he emailed me back saying I must be since I emailed him a reply. even though the email was I am sorry I am not interest or I am not looking for that.



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