Changing my mind...  

whathusband 45F
216 posts
7/7/2006 11:18 am

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9/8/2006 4:03 am

Changing my mind...

I have been known to be a little on the fickle side. But, lately I've been thinking. Yeah, I've had fun playing the game, but now I'm thinking that I want something else from the game. I think that once I get settled in my new house, I want to look for one or two guys that are willing and able to be a regular thing for me. I'm not saying all the time, just like the typical "fuck buddy" thing. I'll call you or you call me when the mood strikes and go from there. I'm tired of all the games and quite frankly, I don't have the time to sit here and do an intense search over every profile. Do you think this is an unreasonable thing or can it be done? Are there guys out there that can really accept terms like this? I want someone that won't be intimidated by my husband, but just accepts that he's well aware of what's going on. I don't know, I guess I've said enough for now...

swingertheman 52M
3 posts
7/8/2006 6:57 pm

hey if you have doubt give it up,thats a sign to let it have to pay attention to the signals.follow your gut feeling.

Phineas2005 49M
854 posts
7/8/2006 7:25 pm

...and also do not fall in googly in love with you too, like a friend of ours have this problem.

It's bad you are now over 300 miles from me!

Love and kisses,


Robb1972006 46M
2 posts
7/31/2006 8:24 am

Hey, I totally understand where you're coming from and I feel the same way. The thing that I don't get is how your husband approves of this. I'm married and my wife would divorce me before approving anything like this. Unless your husband does the same thing?
So are you ready to have a sexual lover? I'm married man, caucassian, 30's, built and good looking. To give u an idea, its like Andree Agassi, if you know him.
Well, let me know, I'll glad to swap pictures with you.
Take care,

rm_USMC_4_fun 40M
47 posts
8/4/2006 8:28 pm

It's a shame we seem to be drawn farth apart. I wouldn't mind being your regular.

whathusband replies on 8/10/2006 12:23 pm:
it's just my bad luck! i know you'd be the perfect one!

rm_rsf_talon2 50M
6 posts
8/21/2006 10:37 am

Hard for me, being new to this, that a husband approves. Myself being married, I'm in the same boat as Robb. Would be nice to talk to you though and share photos if you'd like.

Oberonrising 47M

9/7/2006 1:45 pm

I find it hard to belive that a women with such obvious intellect has trouble getting what she wants. Anything is possible, you just need to set the paramenters early. You have clearly communicated your wishes, just find the right man or woman for the job. I can't say much for the guy's I can only tell you that the ladies that I have engaged with tend to invest alot of emotions into a relationship and that really puts demands on my time that I can not afford to give them. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Oberon[COLOR crimson]

whathusband replies on 9/8/2006 4:02 am:
I can honestly tell you that some guys do the same thing, invest too much emotion, get too attached, but I am up front about it all. I'll have to bring back one of my older posts and you'll see. I save all of my emotions, feelings, and such for the man that deserves it, my husband. I'm just in it for the fun of it!

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