~Orgasms, Huh, What, Yeah Right~  

1420 posts
5/24/2006 6:43 pm

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~Orgasms, Huh, What, Yeah Right~

How many emails do us ladies get where we are promised by this guy we will orgasm, have many orgasms or even multiple orgasms, yet nowhere have they asked or we yet had the opportunity to tell or asked how we get off and what we like!? It`s like a statement or a blasted command!

Little fact for those gents not in the know, not all women get off just because you stick your dick inside their vagina. Not all women orgasm and not all orgasm with vaginal sex nor licking that one spot for hours and hours as many more have promised.

I enjoy sex and as long as it is good sex and I`m having fun, I`m not focused on whether I get off or not. So what is my problem? It`s the stupid line, it`s the assumption, is there a new bag of tricks and one liners that are handed out to guys now? When I was first sexual late teens, not one guy touched, looked or even dreamt of doing a darn thing to your vagina besides shoving their dick in it. Now it seems loads and loads of guys 'lurve' licking for hours and hours and you get the picture....

This one line of emails from a guy, mostly one sided, his motto must be persistance beats resistance, which screams to me, I`m desperate will you just put out for crying out loud. Just his initial is all I get, but he wants my full home address cause 'we can`t do it at his place as he`s share housing'!! No thought for doing it anywhere else, oh he can do it after 3, um, I have kids (geez did you read my profile at all?) Most tuesdays for over a month now I get that same persisting email. This time was a little different, it is promising many orgasms (probably all his no doubt). Do you see what is missing? There is no interest whatsoever in asking or talking just banging away at the free root chicks place. That`s how I see it. After the initial, no, but thankyou, he just keeps going with the one liner banter.

It`s really quite funny, or maybe I just have to laugh or go a little nutty!

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/68F
3394 posts
5/24/2006 7:15 pm

frankly, claiming / promising heavely orgasms and hundred of them i take as an insult ... he's dead in the water with me.

what he's saying is that he thinks he's greatly talented ... but as you said, u ask!!!! .. she knows what is for her.

sharing housing??? ... hahahaha .. sure, and he is, ...with wifey!!!


LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/68F
3394 posts
5/24/2006 7:17 pm

frankly, claiming / promising heavenly orgasms and hundreds of them ... i take as an insult ... he's dead in the water with me.

what he's saying is that he thinks he's greatly talented ... but as you said, u ask!!!! .. she knows what is for her.

sharing housing??? ... hahahaha .. sure, and he is, ...with wifey!!!


mikewv1967 50M

5/24/2006 7:48 pm

Great points...if you get those e-mails with these "statements" then they are likely amateurs. I agree with you whole-heartedly. I want to know WHAT a particular woman wants, which I like to take the time and ASK. I have been around long enough to know that what works well for one, doesn't work for another.

Let apologize for the men here....

941 posts
5/24/2006 8:05 pm

Thankyou lovely ladies and thankyou Mike. That`s exactly what my husband says, Mike.

rm_BrisFitGuy 43M
1 post
5/24/2006 9:47 pm

Another apology for the guys wetta, easy to see how the ladies on this site get frustrated. Just been having a read of you blog, most of what you write about is common sense (ie pics before meeting, chatting first etc), it's scary that so many people don't seem to get it.

Now...i have to admit this post has an alterior motive as well, that being that i'd love to have a chat some time. I'm 31, bris northside (albany creek), have pics and cam to verify identity....and promise you nothing apart from chatter and quite possibly some laughter (i'm a joker when i get going), and take things from there.

If that sounds of interest to you, feel free to add me to msn, my address is brisfitguy at hotmail

941 posts
5/24/2006 10:13 pm

LOL< BrisFitGuy, good show, called taking advantage, 10 points-check ur email box

35pluspolarbear 49M
1 post
5/25/2006 4:23 pm

nice butt, cant promise anything me.at 38 Im new to this market but i need to be warmed up before i dive in. dont know about you but a nice leed up to sex is just as important as the sex .

NiceGuyMush 48M

5/25/2006 8:44 pm


Funny how after you meet and an A/H some decent fellass show up.
I can't get over how some men think a woman will just shag for the sake of it. Hell there must be some sort of connection for it be of any real enjoyment, otherwise why do it?

I feel a need to connect in some way mentally/emotionally with a partner, otherwise I'm left feeling cheap and that I somehow used my partner.

Does this sound like a SNAG? Probably.
But thats just me being honest and decent.

There are plenty of good folk about - I guess you just gotta find them!

941 posts
5/25/2006 9:33 pm

Cheers NiceGuy, still trying to weed out the humans from the subhumans here, oh and of course looking for the human one that appeals.

I persist, LOL

haversack_smith 41M
6192 posts
5/27/2006 1:43 am

What mikew said... the secret to pleasuring a woman is communication and attention to her body's reactions (and a tiny slice of luck).

rm_Ellenback 59F
966 posts
5/27/2006 10:14 am

Nice hat, haversack!!! Hmmmm I'd hope you had more than just a 'tiny' slice to ya...

Wetta, you've heard the phrase "legend in my own mind," haven't you? These guys are sharp as a marble, sometimes...talking about your last woman's orgasms doesn't work with many women! Reminds me of one of my first bf's, I was 16...he went down on me for 20 seconds (no kidding!!!) and then popped up for air, asking me, "Did you cum yet?" Apparently his LAST gf could, in about 10 seconds...and here I was, first time anyone had ever done that to me, and I was like, WTF...is something wrong with me??? I sooooo wonder if he has discovered the truth yet?? HEY NUMBFUCK, SHE LIED!!!

I think some guys use their 4" rulers as a barometer for all their experiences...DO not paint me with her brush! (oh, and I for sure don't want her damn dildo anywhere near me, either! LIKE EWWWWW!)



941 posts
5/27/2006 1:50 pm

Elle, I was just wondering if Haversack is insinuating he`s merely a flashpole up a skirt? 10 seconds, WOW, she got 'wet' (odd, I didn`t feel a thing) and thought she was now experienced, sigh, inexperience together makes.....hmmmmm, now that`s a gap y`all can fill in yaselves. Problem is hun, the 'legend in my own mind' phrase seems to still apply now, not all of them are taking that next turnoff and growing up!

And my dear make me laugh woman, I do hope you`re writing a book on this stuff, tis gold I tells ya...she writes as she wipes the laughter tears from the corner of her eyes. Mwaaaaaaahhhhh

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