Prefer Not To Say  

1420 posts
6/20/2006 2:23 am

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6/24/2006 4:09 am

Prefer Not To Say

Why would you tick that box as a guy in your profile? To me that is a dead giveaway that you are somehow attached. It`s not a turn on to be mysterious in that section, c`mon, surely no clever person would find it that way? Perhaps you just could not be bothered filling it in on the drop down menu? You really don`t want to admit to that either, if you can`t be bothered filling in your profile properly with those few little drop down menus, makes ME wonder if that attitude rolls over onto more of your life.....

After one lovely lad explained to me that the majority of guys on here seem to be a Capricorn star sign as they can`t be fugged filling that bit in, well, fair enuff on that I guess, doesn`t REALLY matter, us ladies will soon work out from your introductory email or chatting to you if you`ve hit the right chord, not the month you fell out of your Mother`s tummy

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
6/20/2006 7:46 am

I have no idea what they are thinking! I think they would be better off picking one than the "Prefer Not To Say".

But lately, the profile with no pics, really are bothering me. I look at it as they are not really serious.

Just ramblings of Mav

941 posts
6/20/2006 6:17 pm

I agree Mav, I have found a lot are so paranoid or full of it with these no picture profiles that if I reply to the ones who have the ability to contact, that you never get a response once you reiterate about the picture, or a whole bunch of excuses. It`s boggling how hard people say it is to come up with a recent and clear face photo or even any photo.

As to the prefer not to say,perhaps they don`t think is more like it.

rm_Ellenback 59F
966 posts
6/22/2006 5:31 am

I'd always wonder if they'd 'prefer not to say' "I love you" or "let's see each other again...soon!" or what else they'd prefer NOT to say - like "man, you are just a piece of ass to me, but I'll take it cuz it's better than going without..."

You're right - that one little thing, or worse yet, when they don't even have their status listed (where does it go...into the toilet?) shows that they can't be upfront about married/not married, and then how can they be upfront with you?

But the no picture thing? The best looking guy I've met had no pictures, so I helped him out and took a few. Those without digital cameras often can't get them online, and I still remember having to go to a Black's to get a CD of pictures made (at exorbitant cost!) just so I could have pictures for my profile, once upon a time!

But, if it's important, and on this site IT IS...get them friggin' made, somehow, someway!!!



941 posts
6/22/2006 2:40 pm

    Quoting rm_Mutual69Fun:
    Maybe they are not sure ??? LOL. Not sure about the star sign but who knows , us virgos being typically fussy and anal will allways cross the t's and dot the dots. My brother is a Capricorn , never remembers birthdays etc , even on your birthday and your talking to him. Damn
    fine ass by the way wetta.
Thankyou for the compliment my FNQ friend

rm_isabella989 42M
83 posts
6/22/2006 6:23 pm

Hi wettaone you allways have smething interesting to say keep it up hun!! have great day!!!

ezroller46526 43M

6/23/2006 4:11 pm

I'm always unsure of profiles that list 'prefer not to say' for sexual orientation. I mean seriously. You must have some idea one way or the other what your are looking for. Are we supposed to guess?

People who don't list some kind of pic, what's the point? In this day and age, everyone has some kind of access to a digital camera, a camera phone, or a scanner (at home or work). It's not worth the time to 'request a pic' if they fill out 'prefer not to say' on half of their profile. And when you live in a backwards ass town in a backwards ass state, there are very few real profiles with pics less than a hundred miles away. I'm not saying that every woman on this site needs to post a pornographic photo, (they can forward those directly to my inbox) I'm just saying post something. The best looking girl I've found on this site only had one innocent face pic posted on her profile and she's also the smartest, funniest, & sexiest girl I've found. Too bad she's 9,000 miles away. Brisbane girls are so hot.

Signs. Do people really look at those things? If so, you should look for Scorpios, Wetta. We make the best lovers. We love to {=} and lots of foreplay.

I wish you would reconsider your policy on network invites. There is a slight chance that someone who sends you an invite actually read your profile. Before deleting their profile, maybe you could briefly review their profile or drop them a line and see if they have anything intelligent to say. Just a thought.

Have a nice weekend Wetta

941 posts
6/24/2006 4:09 am

I do read a profile but I`m not here to screw a bunch of words and if there is nothing in it nor the face/body I want then bye bye. Never assume............

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