SEX!  

wetmenspankme 38F
3 posts
7/24/2006 4:12 am
SEX!


How soon after a guy get to know girl should they have sex? How soon after that can they say they love each other? Should we get to know each other before any of this happens?

What if this girl is just looking for a friened would you be her friend? I want do be real with you all,sex is wonderfull thats not what am looking for.
One night stands are a no no.

Am in a relationship where my boyfriend is mad with me because I haven't been able to bear his child. It feel like he doesn't love me any more and he just have me around because he feel sorry for me! Well an here to find a new guy to replace him.

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Glimmer_Man06 48M
3308 posts
7/24/2006 5:17 am

1. How soon after a guy get to know girl should they have sex? That really depends on the 2 persons involved, and whether or not it is what BOTH parties want. I generally wait around 3 months, unless of course she makes the first move, which I LOVE!

2. How soon after that can they say they love each other? Again, that depends on the 2 individuals. I tend to fall in love with a woman relatively fast if my heart says, "this is it!". I don't require sex before I tell a woman that I love them. I do take the time to ensure she is feeling the same before I say those words. One way love sucks big time. Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt!

3. Should we get to know each other before any of this happens?YES! Very important! Even just for sex, I wont hop into bed with the first beauty to spread her legs. If I know nothing about her, then I am not jumping into the sack with her.

4. What if this girl is just looking for a friened would you be her friend? Friends are the greatest! I am always willing to be friends with a woman, and many of those friendships have turned in to short affairs, we were "there" for eachother when it was needed.I would strictly suggest to stay away from ONS. Not good!

Good luck in your search for a man that will accept you just the way you are. There are other ways to go about having a child together. If that is his only reason for not wanting you, he is a fool!

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!


mikewv1967 51M

7/24/2006 7:02 am

I agree with Glimmer for the most part.

I think of you are open to having a sexual relationship, then this is the site for you, but if you are looking for love...not that it can't happen (just ask Belle), but you are more likely to find a man for more serious dating on Match or something.

How soon after meeting? Depends on what you are loooking for. I find that sometimes the more I know about someone, that can either make it hotter (because I know what they like) or make it weird (because it is now someone you like/trust and can now lead to embarassment). The one thing about being with someone that you don't know all that well is that you tend to be more un-inhibited and less embarassed in front of them (at least I do).

Good luck.


scented_candles 43F

7/26/2006 10:05 am

Sweet Girl,
Dont be all that confused cause it happens to the best of us...so he wants to dis-own you because you wont have a child for him (how unfair) I guess his patience has run short !!

I am also looking for a fella and One Night Stands are also a NO NO for me.

Guess What ? Its simple hun, answer PM's if you feel comfy with thier profile or thier approach and avoid men who are looking for one night stands, CONTROL who u chat with and u will be just fine!!!


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