Do men really appreciate a woman's vulva?  

warmandsexy52 66M
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9/6/2005 11:14 pm

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11/30/2006 12:16 pm

Do men really appreciate a woman's vulva?

I’m intrigued in what gets talked about and what doesn’t. Male endowment, the face, breasts and buttocks all get discussed freely, not just in Blogland, but more widely too. Of course what lies beneath it all is the biological variation that blesses us all and our unique physical identities.

But the vulva, although it gets a lot of press, generally doesn’t get a sophisticated press for such a beautifully elaborate erogenous area, with all that wonderful variation in labia, clitoris, vagina and so on. That’s not to say that some fine books have been written, but I mean general discourse. I can get into a conversation about cocks, tits and bums, but when it comes to pussy, with guys it seems, it just gets too generic. There’s a garden of flowers that we’re really taking for granted.

I’ve got to concede that in a long term relationship you do develop a deep awareness of how beautiful your lover is between her legs. But I think that comes with knowing, and loving and spending sweet time together.

There is a paradox, because a spread vulva will trigger all the arousal systems in a man. We should be more appreciative of the finer points, shouldn’t we? It’s like we see, but we don’t. We’re drinking fine champagne as if it was Budweiser.

Now there has been well-documented research that what happens when we guys get aroused, I mean really aroused, is that our IQ falls to somewhere around 80. So the moment we get aroused our capacity to discriminate all such finer points vanish. D’oh!

There are other reasons, I know, but I cannot help but be intrigued.

red_hot_trucker 59F

11/29/2006 5:44 pm

*fans hereself* trying to remember why she came here...


My dear, you have been given another The Golden Egg.

Here's to vulvas!

*leaves quickly to take care of...*


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warmandsexy52 replies on 11/29/2006 11:14 pm:
Awwww! Thank you! Two golden eggs in a vulva at the same time. Something amazing is going on.


warm xx

MyEnglishF 51F

11/28/2006 12:13 pm

Are you serious about the IQ? I came to tag you for The Golden Egg and I found something interesting to read and learn... WOW...
You are very much right though... about other areas being talked about a lot and often and it never came to me that when the talk is about men... teh talk can get specific about the cock, the head, the shaft, the base or the balls and... but when it comes to women... it is mostly either their pussy or clit...
GOOD point

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/29/2006 10:58 pm:
That's such a nice thing to do! I wondered at the time why no one commented on it ...... a kinda little orphan post. And a whole year later to save it from loneliness ......

Yes it is true, male IQ does drop with sexual arousal and it is harder to make wise decisions the hornier we guys get. The truth is I don't know how true this is for women, but my guess is it must be partially so.


warm xx

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