MEN Are So Selfish  

warm_inside4u 39F
32 posts
6/4/2006 11:10 am

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2/26/2007 8:02 am

MEN Are So Selfish

I met a woman on-line who said that she was interested in having a threesome and that she liked my pics. I thought that i was going to meet up with her and her boyfriend for drinks to get to know each other and get comfortable. The only person that showed up was the boyfriend. He said how sorry she was for not being able to make it but she had got called in to work. We had a couple of drinks but i think i had 1 apple martini too many, and ended up in the car with one pants leg off spread eagle with this man's head planted in between my legs with his lips suctioned on my clit. It was very satisfying but i was hoping it would have been his girlfriends mouth instead of his.

After i came all over his face i stopped him and headed home. The next day i called her and she told me that she wish she was there to enjoy what had happened that night but disappointed that i didn't let him fuck me. I told her that i wasn't interested in him and that it was her. She wanted to reschedule but i called it quits because it had only been 16 hours since her man ate me out and he has called me a total of 27 times begging to see me again......ALONE!

Leaving me messages about how he wants to drink my cum again and how he wants so bad to stick his cock inside of me because he's curious to know what i feel like inside.

I think i have a stalker on my hands.

fun4allandus 60M/55F

6/4/2006 11:39 am

Know exactly where you are coming from girlfriend. Hubby and I had a guy over a couple times. Seemed nice enough until he lied to my hubby about things that did not happen and he was waiting for me when I left for work one morning. He came running up behind me and it scared the hell out of me. To make things worse I could not get the phone to work when I tried to call my hubby. I finally got hold of him. I found out later when I got home the guy had called and told him an entirely different story. Talk about obsessive. We told him if he contacted me again that we would get the police involved. Thank god he belived us otherwise it would be rather embarrassing to tell them the whole story behind the situation. Yes I believe you have a stalker there and you should take necessary precautions to protect yourself.

rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
6/4/2006 11:39 am

call blocking....

AdventureSeekerX 50M
8 posts
6/4/2006 11:42 am

It's guys like that who make it tough for the rest of us.

Sorry you guys had such bad experiences.

2375 posts
6/4/2006 11:47 am

I usually hook up with couples, but I know where you're coming from! I had a guy telling me his wife was interested but couldn't meet with us at the scheduled time. I cancelled, explaining that I'm not out to ruin any relationships or get myself into trouble. You should do anything you can to stay safe. Good luck.

westhill2006 54M

6/4/2006 12:22 pm

Welcome to the blogs by the way...

timberwolf6972 45M

6/4/2006 12:51 pm

I'm sorry to hear about that. I'm sure that situation is fairly common though. You should let his g/f hear any messages that he left you.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
6/4/2006 1:09 pm

some peepz just don't get it ....

welcome to blogging

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/4/2006 1:09 pm

That's bad..sorry to hear.

Djeeper1987 48M

6/4/2006 1:16 pm

Yep thats stalkerhood. I hear restraining order?

Carpe Diem

wistfuljester 65M

6/4/2006 1:17 pm

It sounds to be like his girlfriend is just helping him to hook up with other women.

rm_ScottFromPDX 46M

6/4/2006 1:29 pm

So, this guy went down on you and you came, then you stopped him and sent him home, right? And the title of this thread is that *men* are selfish?

I hate that. I hate bringing a girl to orgasm and then being treated like a used condom... something to be gotten rid of so that it doesn't bother.

I'm not saying that this guy doesn't sound freaky, don't get me wrong. I would avoid him as well.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

6/4/2006 1:36 pm

Yikes that is scary.


LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/68F
3394 posts
6/4/2006 1:51 pm

hi warm

we do mfm 3 somes... and if the story changes in ANY way ....... we get outa there, even if i have to leave my panties behind, why did i ever say that? , i dont wear panties on dates.

best to you
♥§ΩuirT♥er & MFM Tail§

rm_ORB486 58M

6/4/2006 1:52 pm

I have had two separate stalker girlfriends over the years. Once I had to leave for Europe for four months to get away. When I came back the calls were still coming in every day and she was still dropping by, driving by my apartment, leaving messages, trying to catch me at work. I had to lay low for a month not answer the phone or the door, and then left for South America for three more months. Finally, it was over (although I received a long letter a year later giving me her new address). So it is not just men. Selfishness and obssession seem to be human emotional traits. By the way, I had called off the relationship kindly but in no uncertain terms a couple months before leaving the country to escape.

XpertLeader 38M
3 posts
6/4/2006 2:00 pm

thats ugly.. but i guess u tasted good to blow out his mind

Shameless_Biotch 49F

6/4/2006 2:35 pm

Hey girl! Welcome to the whole blog experience!
I had a stalker once, too...he got really mean and nasty, gave my a computer a virus that crashed it for a couple of days!!He would go into the south chatroom, here on A F F and tell anyone who would listen outrageous lies about me so they wouldn't want to date me!Luckily, through the help of some true cyber friends, he was run off and exposed for the liar and idiot he was!I thought I was rid of him, but he just changed his handle and showed right back up in the south room the other day! So I don't spend much time in there anymore...I used to love chatting in the south room, now I will give that up not to make myself a target and possibly get hurt...or worse!
What's funny about my stalker is that he was fine until I tried to cut off contact, then he started telling about all these "feelings" and stuff, as if it was MY responsibilty that he had fallen in love with the pussy!!what part of "I'm married and plan on staying that way" did he not understand!?!?!LOL
But, in a wierd way, warminside4u, it's a compliment to your hot pussy to have someone fall in love/lust with it!!!
Good luck and welcome again,


rm_1SweetBitch 56F
8575 posts
6/4/2006 4:05 pm

Welcome to blogging...I hope your stay here is a enjoyable one.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

rm_FlexUvagina1 44M
2 posts
6/6/2006 7:57 pm

you know what you shouldn't have allowed him to eat your pussy, why let hime eat your pussy after you cumm to tell him to stop, sounds like you used him and he feel used and want to finish what he started.
basicall you just used him.

rm_Lattimore 47M

6/7/2006 1:55 pm

When someone calls you 27 times, even over the course of 3 days, they are utterly out of control... Leave that person alone.

I think we've all had extemely enthusiastic people in our lives... some more than others. For me, if the person can't understand a hint I am automatically concerned with whatever else they won't understand.


6/7/2006 8:35 pm

We are not selfish ,but when you offer up the goods on a botched deal who is to blame...?you went looking for a combination plate and ended up with an eggroll..!

rm_big84u40 54M

6/10/2006 12:46 pm

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. not all of us are selfish but like it was already said, it sounds more like he was using her to get other women....

rm_Victoragua 37M
1 post
8/1/2006 8:13 am

man miss that is crazy but that is your fault. if you wanted the shorty you should have left when she did not show up. don't tell me that to much drink stuff. you enjoyed it and got what you wanted and skated. you are being selfish. you get him to make you cum and don't want to talk to them because of the ordeal. he is selfish but i doubt you asked him to stop eating that pussy.

freakyfrancoeur 35M
2 posts
10/23/2006 1:31 am

what a morron
you know what to do next time, right?

rm_freak7822 39M
12 posts
2/11/2007 9:49 am

See thats that bullshit right there, guys dont know when to leave the pussy alone, even if it is the best pussy on earth and taste like home made apple pie with french vanilla bean ice cream on top, never never never call back, if she really enjoyed how that pussy was eaten she will call you back, if she didnt enjoy it, you still have a slight change of getting a do over. Babygirl I am sorry about that bad experience, ......I dont ask for numbers i give mines if u call u call but like Usher said "You dont have to call, its ok girl, imma be alright tonight", Plus I live in chicago so i dont stalk long distance I come into town we have fun or u come to my city , we have fun and that is it. GUYS STOP HARRASSING THE PUSSY PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE YOU FUCK IT UP FOR EVERYBODY ELSE..

heandher 59M/60F
4 posts
2/12/2007 11:14 am

My wife and I have experienced the same thing but only with a woman. The woman said that she wanted BLACK DICK but if the man was married she wanted to meet the wife to make sure there was no drama and that the man was not cheating on his wife. We agreed and we met for the first time in a very public place so that everyone would be comfortable and since I drive a truck (over the road), I was out of town when the lady decided that she wanted to hang out with my wife, that was fine with me. The lady went to our house and she and my wife had a few drinks and they went to bed. My wife knew that I was on my way home but the lady did not and when I arrived home the lady woke up, it was around 1am. I said "I am going to shower and then I will join you all, before I could take my shower, the lady had got out of bed and got dressed and left and we have never had anything else to do with her again, so please do not say "MEN ARE SELFISH" BECAUSE EVERYONE IS SELFISH TO A POINT, because you knew that the man wanted to do more than lick your pussy and if you did not want to have sex with him then you should not have started. You could have stopped at the first drink or not even had the first drink. People tend to forget that there are other peoples feelings involved and that we all have our own vices. Bloggers have acted as if the man is deliberately taking advantage of his wife or girlfriend and they are failing to take into account the fact that the girlfriend might have a fettish of finding women for her man and maybe not so much as being there but getting her satisfaciton from knowing that he has been with another woman. I know lots of women that want you to tell them how I fuck other women while I am fucking them and they get lots of enjoyment from it. We are all selfish to a point but we should be careful on passing judegment on a certain group and acting as if our way is the only way to have sex and that other people's way is not important.

warm_inside4u 39F
2 posts
2/26/2007 8:01 am

for those who think that i lead this man on, you're wrong. he and his wife lead me on. when i seen that she didn't show up i didn't see a problem with going out for drinks since i had nothing to do that night. when we got back in the car he asked me if he could lick my pussy, i didn't grab him by the back of the neck and guide him there. the drinks had me feeling good so i said "yes, but that's all". i made it clear to him and he knew it. he knew that i was interested in his wife and so did she. he even tried to buy my panties from me for $60. when i told her what had happened and that he was calling me uncontrollably she acted as if i was the one who had the problem. it seemed as if she wanted me to take him off of her hands. maybe i should have named the blog "SOME PEOPLE ARE SELFISH". i apologize.

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