finger licking good  

wanderlust1176 42F
93 posts
4/15/2005 12:56 pm

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finger licking good

alright, one little blog and then I MUST attempt to do something with my day.
I just got into a debate with a friend of mine about swingers and relationships. I figured I would present the questions at hand and see what all of you have to say (meaning the .005 people who read my blog)
I am a single lady, mother, independant, artistic, perverted and a swinger. Im not a swinger because Im perverted, but because I believe it to be a healthy lifestyle when done right. I go to clubs and sites like these because I figure that the only way I will ever find a life partner who wants to share in all my adventures (then becoming our adventures)is in these circles. My friend, who has accepted my 'quirkieness' to this point, contends that there is no way a healthy relationship could form from this venue, nor do swinging couples have a good shot of a lasting relationship.
What do you think???

P.S. The title was just to draw you in

matt7893 33M
1 post
4/15/2005 1:56 pm

do what you want in life
anything can work if you are in love, have fun, and enjoy yourself as who you truly are

pussnboots694 74M/79F

4/15/2005 3:12 pm

WE are taught to belive that this life style is wrong, so no one talks about it!!.I think the key is being open and honest with the person you would like to share your lifestyle with. Talking about how you feel, and things you would like to do, most men would die for the fantasy world to become a reality. Letting them know that you enjoy it because it is fun, not because you are looking for a replacement. It is possible to meet people off of these sights who have the same desires as yours, I wish you the best of luck in finding a confident man who is not afraid to share you, and experience the pleasures life has to offer, as for the long lasting relationships, ours has been 10 wonderful yrs, and still going strong

2curiouspeople4u 61M/113F
8 posts
4/16/2005 8:50 pm

consider the source of morality, religion dominated by men thru the ages..think of the nature of man, lustful,greedy, controling by nature willing to destroy anything contrary to his belief of's inability to control breeds his need for control---over, undiluted, breeds honesty which in and of itself is contrary to any of the needs to control and allows for the joy of individual pleasures that are the wellspring of peace...having entered into our marriage acknowledging that monogamy is truely contrary to human nature we have enjoyed 11 wonderful years as a couple and will find many more without the strife caused my monogamy...enjoy your life and teach your child(ren) well....someone who understands love and human nature will treasure both you and your choices in life.

expatbrit49 64M

4/17/2005 8:55 am

I avoid passing comment as it may be mistaken for wisdom LOL but I would say that that it appears to be difficualt to make that work this may be that one is more content with the lifstyle than the other I dont know. My thought is it takes two very tollarent people to have a strong relationship under normal cercumstances.

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rm_tastemyway2 47M
8 posts
4/19/2005 9:07 am

I think it relates to whether both people are truly open to the idea. I suspect that most couples are not true to themselves in that they would like to be able to swing but may not get off on their partner doing it. where does the emotional connection start and stop with sex?

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