Two Days, Two Dates  

volcanoinu23 54M
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3/15/2006 2:20 pm

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3/15/2006 4:51 pm

Two Days, Two Dates

That should actually read two days, two dates but no sex.

What can I say? I guess I am pretty spoiled when I ran into a number of women last summer that really wanted sex on the first day we met.

Last night, I met a woman, actually my first AdultFriendFinder date in months at the Olive Garden in South Hill. We had a nice dinner (how can you not at the OG?) and talked well beyond what the staff there would have preferred. It was a good time. She was a beautiful redhead that looked at least 10 years younger than she actually was. The downside is that she was a little heavier than I would have liked. It brings up a possible future dilemma. She is smart, sexy (in a brain sex sort of way), but once again communication prior let me down. She did not know that I had employed a babysitter for the entire night. She told me that she would have gone to my hotel with me if she had planned properly. I, on the other hand, won't presume that any woman would want to have sex with me after a first date. By the way, this woman can kiss!

tsk..tsk...tsk...

This morning I met with another lady from the Tacoma area at the South Hill Starbucks. She was gorgeous, smart and a great conversationalist. We have actually “IMed” a healthy amount before we met. It has been a pretty special and detailed conversation full of some very sexy thoughts. While she said she wanted to meet with me again sometime, I have my doubts. She cut the meeting short due to family stresses. I do respect and believe her reasons, but I found her demeanor very distracted, cold and distant. This was the same woman that canceled with me last week due to a sick child. I believed her then and I believe her now! She seems stressed. It is too bad, she clearly needs some TLC!

Why am I blogging this? It is because if you "play" this AdultFriendFinder game right, good things can happen. I consider both of these ladies friends now, even if we never get together again. Now that we all made the effort to meet in the physical flesh there is a small bond and respect between us. It is an amazing transition from cyber friend to real friends in flesh.


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