Talk About Sexuality Before Meeting  

volcanoinu23 54M
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1/19/2006 8:25 am

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Talk About Sexuality Before Meeting

There is something tantalizingly illicit about meeting someone on the internet, then in person and having sex. The key here is communication. You read in a lot of profiles that if we “click” we could take it from there. Sometimes, you don’t always get much of a chance to “click”.

Last summer, I met a lady of AdultFriendFinder. We wrote, chatted and she even got me to talk on the phone (which I actually despise). We talked about hopes, wants and fantasies. Notes were taken and deliveries were made to a hotel room in Vancouver. I can always hear her voice almost whispering over the phone “this is going to be intense”.

Another friend and I met up in November. We had not exchanged much in the way of emails and never really flirted or talked about our fantasies. We spent four nights together and in our conversations since then we have discovered so many missed opportunities to please each other because we didn’t talk about the theater of sex before we actually met.

The next time you start those all important and tense discussions about meeting, make sure that some of the conversation is of a sensual nature. Call it cyber if you may, but most relationships on AdultFriendFinder don’t last more than a date or two anyway. Make the first one as amazing as it can be by talking about your own personal sexuality in great detail.

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